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Just curious to find out if any of you were virgins when you got married? and what were your reasonings if applicable?

I think it will be hard to find male virgins before marriage but I think this is more likely to be found in women.

is that a fair statement?

just thought about this and I am curious to see fellow forumnites viewpoint.
 
Was not virginal upon marriage.
Neither was my wife.



/we lived together for almost 3 years prior to marriage!!
 
Also, What constitutes virgins? is someone who "fools around" without having sex still considered a virgin?
 
MickeyD said:
Was not virginal upon marriage.
Neither was my wife.



/we lived together for almost 3 years prior to marriage!!
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Living with your GF for 3 years and not having sex would be difficult..
 
i would love to know the motivation for the question concerning the zenith thread on : sex before marriage.

wallsend said:
Just curious to find out if any of you were virgins when you got married? and what were your reasonings if applicable?

I think it will be hard to find male virgins before marriage but I think this is more likely to be found in women.

is that a fair statement?

just thought about this and I am curious to see fellow forumnites viewpoint.
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Pr⊕phet said:
i would love to know the motivation for the question concerning the zenith thread on : sex before marriage.
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just curiosity. I was having a debate with a mate and we couldn't reach consensus over "what defines a virgin" and we were also wandering if it's still common practice to wait.
 
wallsend said:
just curiosity. I was having a debate with a mate and we couldn't reach consensus over "what defines a virgin" and we were also wandering if it's still common practice to wait.
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well imho:
a virgin is someone without sexual experience.

sex before:
better to have some interaction instead of 'biblically forcing' yourself onto your wife on the wedding night.

did sex before:
make me divorce ?
no

make it less special/loving ?
no

make sex less after ?
no
 
wallsend said:
Just curious to find out if any of you were virgins when you got married? and what were your reasonings if applicable?

I think it will be hard to find male virgins before marriage but I think this is more likely to be found in women.

is that a fair statement?

just thought about this and I am curious to see fellow forumnites viewpoint.
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Frankly, I actually suspect the exact opposite is likely to be true.

But to be honest, I think an adult virgin of either sex would be a sad, deluded, rarity these days.

Do people still value virginity these days? It's a sadly misogynistic, bronze aged concept.
 
scotty777 said:
Virgins!? KK, I'm here guys :).

Wait... ahhh, eff this, I thought it was going to be some kind of virgin union forming! I've been cheated :mad:
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hilarious!

back on topic. what if, as a male, another male PIITB, am I still a virgin? ok, nevermind.
 
MickeyD said:
Was not virginal upon marriage.
Neither was my wife.



/we lived together for almost 3 years prior to marriage!!
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:D @ your Signature. I got so excited when I saw that post :D then clicked on the link for the thread and i was meh :(
 
No thanks. No virgins for me. A pain in bed and expect a wedding ring afterwards :twisted:
 
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