Well, I've noticed it, too. A lot of the ostensibly anti-BEE views are really just anti-black views. Not talking about you or anyone in here specifically, just generally on the forum and in real life.
There's a whole lot of unfair assuming going on. Like assuming a black person that's appointed is automatically a BEE appointment (because who else would get appointed under BEE, right?), or that any BEE appointment is automatically an incompetent person.
Governments goal with BEE was to have black people represented in management, specifically senior management. Because of this, young bright black people who have the right qualifications are often very quickly moved into roles that normally require 20 years of experience. By doing this you have people who do not know what they are doing. I can give an example. I work for an engineering consultancy, we had some meetings with Eskom about a bulk materials conveying system. The 'Senior Manager' who was representing Eskom was a young black person with 2 years experience and a masters degree in electrical engineering. She did not have the technical experience or respect of her colleagues.
On our team we had a equally bright black young engineer, with a masters degree in mechanical engineering. His title is 'Junior Project Engineer' and he will be trained and will get real experience under his belt and be competent in a future role like the above. Taking shortcuts doesn't work, and that is a lot of peoples beef with the execution of BEE that you find in State run companies and some private ones too. It used to be that you needed about 15 years experience to be a principal engineer, now 2 or three will do if you are black at Eskom.
On top of this we have completely unqualified people who are members of a political party with fake degrees etc being responsible for the executive level decisions of core infrastructure companies.
And on another note, we have no real technicians anymore. We now have Universities of Technology, and everyone must be an engineer. Technicians who are properly qualified would go a long way in the maintenance of companies like Eskom, Transnet and SAA, as well as in the private sector. Also, in the ideal world, you would have a 1-2-6 system, something like that (1Engineer-3 Technologists-6 Technicians) This would help a lot more people get out of poverty than the current system of 1 engineering degreed manager with no engineering experience, 2 technician trained engineers running things, and 7 semi-skilled labour.
In some cases, there are no black people with the right qualification, so the standard gets dropped eg: Eskom engineers with an N6 instead of BEng/BTech/Ndip. And the frequent well connected ANC buddy.
This bleeds into the tender system to get a BEE quota, with people like Julius Malema running engineering companies responsible for public infrastructure projects. The frustration of the system is because it's broken, not because of 'racism'.
I'd also like to point out that a lot of black people who 'make the cut' feel the same way. When you have a system where a white girl with a distinction in every subject gets rejected from medical school in the Cape, and at the same time Stellenbosch University has an extended 7 year program for BEE qualifying students with 40 percent there is a problem.