What is wrong with men these days?

No maybe not serqet but just out of interest and again this will be personal but here we go:

Do you ever have porno style sex with your b/f's? Are you a prude in bed?
 
I bring out my inner animal when the opportunity presents itself thank you very much :) *growls*
 
killadoob said:
No maybe not serqet but just out of interest and again this will be personal but here we go:

Do you ever have porno style sex with your b/f's? Are you a prude in bed?
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That's a little too personal, no?
 
Ok so my theory stands by the sound of it :).

Your not a prude for sure in the way you carry yourself but often you find women are possibly shy or think certain positions are reserved for porn stars :)
Voicy i did say it would be personal and everyone has the option to opt out of answering a question, but we are all adults and i am sure talking about how we have sex is not that personal surely?
 
Alan said:
What did you say you name was again?
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You're not going to find me that way either, Alan ;)


killadoob said:
No maybe not serqet but just out of interest and again this will be personal but here we go:

Do you ever have porno style sex with your b/f's? Are you a prude in bed?
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I am curious to know what bearing this has on meeting people... Or why you need to know it.
 
killadoob said:
Ok so my theory stands by the sound of it :).

Your not a prude for sure in the way you carry yourself but often you find women are possibly shy or think certain position are reserved for porn stars :)
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All women have the potential to be porn stars. It just requires the right man to unleash the beast so to speak :)
 
Nice thread Serqet

Some interesting posts and perspectives

Serqet said:
Single friends and myself went out on a ladies night tonight and i can now see why single women complain about being single. We started out at Cofi (not a single man in sight, we tried QBa and the place was dead. We eventually landed up @ FTV. Okay great lots of single men! Yet not a single man approached my single friends and struck up a conversation. Do men just no longer do this or what?
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My 2 cents worth:

At 45 i am coming from a fair amount of experience (i think :o )
Going from venue to venue i find is never a positive thing when wanting to meet people. It doesnt happen in a single night out, it happens over a time period. find a venue you enjoy, and go on a regular basis, not every night, but at least 1 -3 times a week.
Every night doesnt come across as good, as you may have a bit of a drinking problem.
Regular, and you enjoy the place. When you are a familiar face or set of faces in a place, other people recognise you from the past and will begin to greet and chat. Both guys and girls will become more relaxed with you. That is when you begin to meet new people, and it is on neutral ground with no expectations. You will also begin to spot who is out just for a good time, and who is out on the hunt and also who is possibly just a nice person out becasue they may just be after meeting nice people as well.
N.B. Dont hit on the first person of the opposite sex that does become friendly, as that sends the simple message that all you want is to get laid and then that is the label that sticks.
After a while as either a girl or guy, you can comfortably go their alone for a quiet drink and chat, without feeling uncomfortable, and you also know on those off evening you can go somewhere where you may not also be bothered if the mood suites you.
Meeting quality people takes time and effort, you must make the time and take the effort.
The more friends you make the more chance their is of actually meeting that special someone.
 
Nanfeishen said:
Nice thread Serqet

Some interesting posts and perspectives



My 2 cents worth:

At 45 i am coming from a fair amount of experience (i think :o )
Going from venue to venue i find is never a positive thing when wanting to meet people. It doesnt happen in a single night out, it happens over a time period. find a venue you enjoy, and go on a regular basis, not every night, but at least 1 -3 times a week.
Every night doesnt come across as good, as you may have a bit of a drinking problem.
Regular, and you enjoy the place. When you are a familiar face or set of faces in a place, other people recognise you from the past and will begin to greet and chat. Both guys and girls will become more relaxed with you. That is when you begin to meet new people, and it is on neutral ground with no expectations. You will also begin to spot who is out just for a good time, and who is out on the hunt and also who is possibly just a nice person out becasue they may just be after meeting nice people as well.
N.B. Dont hit on the first person of the opposite sex that does become friendly, as that sends the simple message that all you want is to get laid and then that is the label that sticks.
After a while as either a girl or guy, you can comfortably go their alone for a quiet drink and chat, without feeling uncomfortable, and you also know on those off evening you can go somewhere where you may not also be bothered if the mood suites you.
Meeting quality people takes time and effort, you must make the time and take the effort.
The more friends you make the more chance their is of actually meeting that special someone.
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Brilliant post!!! Thank you!
 
Serqet said:
All women have the potential to be porn stars. It just requires the right man to unleash the beast so to speak :)
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Yes that is very true, am i case in point with my g/f. So that is also a very good point.

Now girls who sleep around unleash themselves which means they are able to become the beast without someone pushing them to do so, which means not only are they really amazing in the sack they really enjoy unleashing the beast more often than other girls :).

This for me is not sluttie but yea we all have our own take on life :).

I just had a thought as too why many men stop trying, it could very possibly be that trying to laid for 30 minutes and ending up doing something as boring as missionary the whole time does not seem worth the effort :p
 
Nanfeishen said:
Nice thread Serqet

Some interesting posts and perspectives



My 2 cents worth:

At 45 i am coming from a fair amount of experience (i think :o )
Going from venue to venue i find is never a positive thing when wanting to meet people. It doesnt happen in a single night out, it happens over a time period. find a venue you enjoy, and go on a regular basis, not every night, but at least 1 -3 times a week.
Every night doesnt come across as good, as you may have a bit of a drinking problem.
Regular, and you enjoy the place. When you are a familiar face or set of faces in a place, other people recognise you from the past and will begin to greet and chat. Both guys and girls will become more relaxed with you. That is when you begin to meet new people, and it is on neutral ground with no expectations. You will also begin to spot who is out just for a good time, and who is out on the hunt and also who is possibly just a nice person out becasue they may just be after meeting nice people as well.
N.B. Dont hit on the first person of the opposite sex that does become friendly, as that sends the simple message that all you want is to get laid and then that is the label that sticks.
After a while as either a girl or guy, you can comfortably go their alone for a quiet drink and chat, without feeling uncomfortable, and you also know on those off evening you can go somewhere where you may not also be bothered if the mood suites you.
Meeting quality people takes time and effort, you must make the time and take the effort.
The more friends you make the more chance their is of actually meeting that special someone.
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Going out 3 times a week can be costly though.
 
AvatarS said:
You're not going to find me that way either, Alan ;)




I am curious to know what bearing this has on meeting people... Or why you need to know it.
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Well i was only asking because serget says that females who sleep around, her friend group does not consider them females, so i was just wondering what females who think chicks are sluttie are like in the sack.

Like i said you will find females who look at other females and call them sluts are often are very one track minded in bed and the thought of anything but missionary is not on the cards, this is nice to know before entering a relationship with someone who is like that i reckon.
 
killadoob said:
Voicy i did say it would be personal and everyone has the option to opt out of answering a question, but we are all adults and i am sure talking about how we have sex is not that personal surely?
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Fair enough. :)
 
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