what to do?? please!

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so, i've got a problem!
and i know, you guys will probably say that i'm a drama queen, but i've got this huge problem with my sister now being super duper hyper friends with my ex. When my sister adds new pics on facebook, my ex will also be on the pics and i dont like that at all!

I think its pretty back stabbing for my sister to be really good friends with her now, also, afaik, a good buddy of mine from stellenbosch really likes her aswell. He was like, ya i cant understand why you dumped her, she is good looking and all fun fun. but damn, if i just think of that b!tch it makes me sick and i dont want my family to hang around her. On the other hand, before we started seeing each other, i was really good friends with her parents, because they sort of are my neighbours here in Plett. I just cant stand it that my sister hangs around with her and even less when my friends hang around here. so, what would you guys do in a situation like mine ??
 
Find a new chick, bring her to every event when your sister will be present.
 
She isn't in your life. She's friends with your sister. Unless you share every minute of your life holding your sister's hand i don't see the problem.
 
thedutchman said:
well that wont help me, i just want her to fusk off out of my life!!!
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Too bad for you then. You have a choice - cause a rift between yourself and your sister by attempting to force her to break ties with your ex. Or, be a man and deal with it.

My sister and my mother are still friends with my ex. Just last week my sister showed me pictures of a scan, showing her soon to be newborn boy. Doesn't bother me in the least, in fact I'm happy for her.

Unless things were completely and utterly terrible between you two, then what is the harm in seeing the odd picture of her, or hearing the odd bit of news about her? I'm with alf on this one - you're far from over her...
 
thedutchman said:
well that wont help me, i just want her to fusk off out of my life!!!
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I will guarantee that if you show how opposed to this you are, you will encounter fierce resistance. The more you oppose it, the more your sister and her friend will revel in their new friendship. The more you oppose it the more you will help solidify their friendship.

Move on, get a new chick, show her off.
 
thedutchman said:
she used me and i hate that b!tch!!
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So you landed up dating your neighbour then?

The penny will hopefully drop for you soon that there is very little that you can do to influence your sister without causing even more trouble for yourself, your ex and your sister. It's in your best interests to take it on the chin (after all, I'm assuming they're friends because you introduced them?) and move on like a man.

Think about it this way: if you do cause **** now between your sister and your ex, how will your sister feel the next time you bring a girlfriend home? She'll insist on not getting attached and it will more than likely result in a very awkward relationship between your sister and the new girlfriend. Not cool...
 
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Dude the way you think is very strange, your sister is free to be friends with whoever she chooses. What is there to take on your chin? What rule book says when you break up with a chick everyone around you must act they do not have a clue who she is?

I could see your point if your good mate was poking her but it's nothing like that. Seems a little selfish to ask your sister to not be friends with her or anyone for that matter including your friends.
 
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