Dude, let me tell you a little story, may bore the rest of the people that have posted already since I'm agreeing with them.
A long time ago I met my first wife, we got divorced, we hated each other with a vengance, but were still friends, mainly because of our son. Even though it was entirely the right thing to do (getting divorced) it took me absolute ages to get over her.
She moved with me over here to the UK leaving her whole family back in SA. As a result she became very close to my family since it was the only family she had at her disposal at the time. My mom, and my sister keep in constant contact with her. So much so they were getting news about my boy before I was, I used to go absolutely nuts/crazy about this to the extent that I almost disowned my family, the thinking behind it was he's my son, I don't give two sh1ts, why are they finding stuff out before me?
It pained me for almost 3 years, I acted like a c0ck all the time towards my whole family, if truth be told it drove me close to a break down, thinking my family was against me as they were supporting her every single step of the way. Eventually I got used to the fact they were still "family" and you know what they were right.
ALWAYS remember blood is thicker than water. It wil take time, it's hard at first and to coin a cliche, time is a healer. Eventually you will see sense and look back on this and think geez man I was being a prat.
Occupy yourself with other stuff, whether it be getting laid, what ever just don't dwell on it.
It will come right.
A long time ago I met my first wife, we got divorced, we hated each other with a vengance, but were still friends, mainly because of our son. Even though it was entirely the right thing to do (getting divorced) it took me absolute ages to get over her.
She moved with me over here to the UK leaving her whole family back in SA. As a result she became very close to my family since it was the only family she had at her disposal at the time. My mom, and my sister keep in constant contact with her. So much so they were getting news about my boy before I was, I used to go absolutely nuts/crazy about this to the extent that I almost disowned my family, the thinking behind it was he's my son, I don't give two sh1ts, why are they finding stuff out before me?
It pained me for almost 3 years, I acted like a c0ck all the time towards my whole family, if truth be told it drove me close to a break down, thinking my family was against me as they were supporting her every single step of the way. Eventually I got used to the fact they were still "family" and you know what they were right.
ALWAYS remember blood is thicker than water. It wil take time, it's hard at first and to coin a cliche, time is a healer. Eventually you will see sense and look back on this and think geez man I was being a prat.
Occupy yourself with other stuff, whether it be getting laid, what ever just don't dwell on it.
It will come right.
so some friendly advice get over it, become a better person and win her hear over and then take your sweet revenge and break her heart for the fun of it.
