What would you do and say ?

FiestaST said:
Ask them:

"How much money do you need?"
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lol that would imply you care, which i dont.

Was expecting more along the lines of need a kidney or piece of liver.Cant really post what I sent via email nothing nasty but boils down to calling the parent a sperm donor.


Same thing happened with my two brothers the expectation was with their father to carry on as normal also after 30 plus years.To be honest I last saw the sperm donor when i was about 9 stayed at the same address same landline number for the better part of 20 years.Which was known to the sperm donor and still did nothing with.

I think the biggest FU in the email I sent was to tell the sperm donor as punishment is he never gets to see me ever however i am not heartless he is still welcome to contact me from time to time.Pretty much said i neither care nor want explanation or excuses, it is pointless.

What pissed me of the most is when his wife phoned to confirm it is me, telling me the sperm donor is looking for his laaitie.My responce was nearly iam not your effing laaitie madame but kept my cool.

For the most part i just kept calm and kept it short.

30 ffing years !!!!!!
 
Well that will depend on you and how it effects you on a daily or weekly basis. Do you think about it a lot. Do have a lot of anger or bitterness etc. Etc. If yes, well then it might help to talk things through.

If it doesn't affect you, just say hi, I don't know you, thanks for contacting me but I am not interested to meet and have a lovely year. Cheers.

There is also a chance they are looking for financial assistance. You just never know..
 
wizardofid said:
lol that would imply you care, which i dont.

Was expecting more along the lines of need a kidney or piece of liver.Cant really post what I sent via email nothing nasty but boils down to calling the parent a sperm donor.


Same thing happened with my two brothers the expectation was with their father to carry on as normal also after 30 plus years.To be honest I last saw the sperm donor when i was about 9 stayed at the same address same landline number for the better part of 20 years.Which was known to the sperm donor and still did nothing with.

I think the biggest FU in the email I sent was to tell the sperm donor as punishment is he never gets to see me ever however i am not heartless he is still welcome to contact me from time to time.Pretty much said i neither care nor want explanation or excuses, it is pointless.

What pissed me of the most is when his wife phoned to confirm it is me, telling me the sperm donor is looking for his laaitie.My responce was nearly iam not your effing laaitie madame but kept my cool.

For the most part i just kept calm and kept it short.

30 ffing years !!!!!!
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"laaitie"

Sheesh, you were born in klerksdorp?
 
RedViking said:
Well that will depend on you and how it effects you on a daily or weekly basis. Do you think about it a lot. Do have a lot of anger or bitterness etc. Etc. If yes, well then it might help to talk things through.

If it doesn't affect you, just say hi, I don't know you, thanks for contacting me but I am not interested to meet and have a lovely year. Cheers.

There is also a chance they are looking for financial assistance. You just never know..
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He never paid maintenance, go to court and maybe pay R100.00 a month or two and then stops.So financial assistance....lol what about when I needed it. The time I needed to drop out of my school and hostel because we could no longer afford it. Was in a special art school for my chosen career and had to go to a lesser school.
 
From someone that has lost his dad at a young age, resented him due to his alcoholism - life is to short.
 
wizardofid said:
He never paid maintenance, go to court and maybe pay R100.00 a month or two and then stops.So financial assistance....lol what about when I needed it. The time I needed to drop out of my school and hostel because we could no longer afford it. Was in a special art school for my chosen career and had to go to a lesser school.
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No you get me wrong. He might want financial assistance. Getting old and need money from you.
 
RedViking said:
No you get me wrong. He might want financial assistance. Getting old and need money from you.
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Yeah that ain't happening........I think he is turning 69 this year. Good luck in that venture, the world's smallest violin is being delivered tomorrow, I take requests, but you might not like the tune.
 
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