What would you do and say ?

[wizardofid]

Maybe he has a life threatening disease and wants forgiveness for how he treated you?

If billshitting was a disease..........then most definitely life threatening.

No regrets from my side......I am at peace, half been for 30 odd years. My mom is my world, she is the description of a super mom, played cricket, rugby, baseball and various manly activities with us.Equally hard and lovely, when we were naughty we got what we deserved, and I am thankful to be with her in her old age, turning 70 this year.

While we still bump heads, and argue, the relationship is that of angry for 5minutes and asking if you want any thing to drink or eat. Who needs a father figure when you have a person that is a 2-1.

 

[wizardofid]

Maybe he wants to put you in his will

lol, whether the sperm donor does it or not, would be out of true feeling unconditional love and regret, regardless of rekindling a relationship or not.

Not that I care, don't have wealth, never did, nor did it ever bother me in the slightness.

 

[millennia]

Just throwing this out there but if it doesn't bother you as much as you say it doesn't, then you shouldn't come across so bitter

If it's no skin off your teeth, then meet the guy to see what he's got to say

 

[MEIOT]

Just throwing this out there but if it doesn't bother you as much as you say it doesn't, then you shouldn't come across so bitter

If it's no skin off your teeth, then meet the guy to see what he's got to say

I have to agree with this viewpoint.
You went as far as creating a thread. If it meant that little to you why bother getting the opinions of others to justify your decisions?

Sounds like you might have unresolved issues with the whole situation...OP

 

[wizardofid]

I have to agree with this viewpoint.
You went as far as creating a thread. If it meant that little to you why bother getting the opinions of others to justify your decisions?

Sounds like you might have unresolved issues with the whole situation...OP

Actually it was more to gauge how the general feeling is of people dealing with it or will deal with it. Stuff like this is quite fascinating, and love reading comments, and got my answer, and feel vindicated by my actions

Was a peace before and still at peace.Quite happy to continue trotting along, now that the matter is handled.

Thanks for your concern though