When the love is gone

Linoman said:
This will sound stupid but I don't know. For the last 2 weeks she can completly changed towards me.

Not loving anymore etc, I mean seriously not to mention due to exams hardly any contact with her. Until her exams end.

I guess its making me feel so offish and who knows how she feels. That is if she even cares.




For the rest of my life feeling like this:sick: Eh well I might not be getting married to her then:p
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When I am in exams I see my gf once a week instead of the 5-6 times a week I normaly do....

But if she is being completely f-d up towards you, then as the afrikaans people would say: "skop haar op haar gat"
 
Iwojima said:
There are only enough shallow men in this world to compensate for the amount of shallow women in this world. :rolleyes:
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No arguments there, but none of them posted here :rolleyes: Just like Linoman seems to be a good guy, there are some nice girls too :p
 
Linoman said:
Hey Buddy. Thanks for asking. Well feeling a bit better today. I think I have accepted the fact that she hurt me. Going to stop taking it out on everyone else.

I guess I am better thank you:o
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Good. Don't think too much about it. Constantly thinking about it will only make it worse. Try to focus on other things and keep yourself occupied.
 
I would concentrate on how htf your going to get laid one last time before you guys break up. That way your concentrating on something positive and not negative :p
 
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Linoman said:
At the moment the weird thing is that I am not sure if we will breakup?

It is weird how one sees things when one has calmed down a bit. Saturday will be a big day for the relationship. So guys wish me/us luck.

Ironic that Saturday is also our 5 Month Anniversary
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5 Month Anniversary means nothing - u sound like a girl ;)

U've already had a gf, so u know u'll get another one.
Now try to quit thinking about it, u just deluding yourslef with all those wondering...
Either way it goes you're ok.
Just don't be rude to her.
 
Linoman said:
Hey Buddy. Thanks for asking. Well feeling a bit better today. I think I have accepted the fact that she hurt me. Going to stop taking it out on everyone else.
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Feelings are very complex.. See this as good practise for marriage.. When your feelings get hurt, you sometimes overthink/analyse things.. Try and take it easy and take it as it comes.. Like you just said, once you have calmed down and logic has settled in again, often you realise things are not as bad :)

Good luck on Sat.. It will be fine no matter what the outcome.. Just speak to her honestly.. And hopefully she will reply honestly :cool:
 
alf101 said:
5 Month Anniversary means nothing - u sound like a girl ;)

U've already had a gf, so u know u'll get another one.
Now try to quit thinking about it, u just deluding yourslef with all those wondering...
Either way it goes you're ok.
Just don't be rude to her.
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+1 :)
 
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