Why do people cheat?

Baxteen said:
can I break your brain some more RH?

I believe I am a decent human being.

and I am not trolling here, by the standards we live in I consider myself decent.
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Hate to break it to you, bud. You weren't a decent person.
 
Garson007 said:
Hate to break it to you, bud. You weren't a decent person.
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To be a decent person (currently), must you have been a decent person throughout your whole life? Because he says he IS a decent person and you say he WASN'T a decent person.
 
A lot of people that cheat are actually happy in their relationships, they just bored. Its how a new exciting person makes you feel. Various chemical reactions and emotions come into play, gets the heart racing, makes you feel alive and confident.

As soon as the sex starts there's no stopping the person.

The movie Unfaithful with Diane perfectly captures this dynamic with all the emotions at play.

Ultimately your values will determine whether you cheat or not irrespective of the circumstances.
 
Like I said. People like drama.

Life's just a game and sometimes you go into it full guns blazing and then you realise, "**** that was trippy."
 
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They need their (he/she) egos soothed - seeking attention.... Boredom - or just plain stupid.
 
Yeah. I wish I was in an abusive relationship. That way I can relate to the Kardashians and have a free pass to cheat! \o/
 
I don't want to be in a relationship and be cheated on... so avoiding them now.
 
Ho3n3r said:
I actually blame it for all the humanly created problems we have in the world.
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Right. Except without it we'd still be living in grass huts eating berries and rodents that died of natural causes.
 
Brewmaster said:
To be a decent person (currently), must you have been a decent person throughout your whole life? Because he says he IS a decent person and you say he WASN'T a decent person.
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hit the nail on the head here.
I have said I am no proud of what I did and who i was. I dont regret it because I learned a lot. like really I learned much more than one man should know.

but now I am a decent person. I am an ass, but I am consistent.


and Garson007 if you think I am not a decent person because I am in an open relationship, you are also quite naive, but that is neither here nor there.


I remember a few weeks ago there was a guy in an open relationship who cheated, did he ever way in and give his reasons?
wish I could remember who that was...
 
Hamster said:
To me personally? Nothing. Well there was the one time when we were much younger when she dry humped my friend in front of me staring me straight in the eyes - left them there at her house. But we were like...23 at the time. Hardly something that would mess you up :/
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And you just stood and watched? Weird.
 
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