Why do people cheat?

Can't help feeling that we done been trolled *hangs head in shame*.
 
garp said:
IMHO people cheat for variety and excitement and it seldom has anything to do with long term "love". In fact, physically open relationships between mature people where the parties haven't been conditioned into reacting to every dalliance as some kind of nuclear meltdown betrayal can be quite healthy, but only where there is a deeper trust and the maturity to understand that there is a difference between a life long companion and an occasional fling because that contributes to your enjoyment of life. In fact, if your long term relationship can't withstand something like that, then you probably shouldn't be in it in the first place. Let's face it, relationships will become physically boring after enough years so why must we put ourselves in some kind of sexual jail for the rest of our lives just to comply with some social construct of physical monogamy. Jealousy is only an issue if your relationship is not strong enough, in which case maybe you shouldn't be chained to each other anyway.
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Some very valid points, and I do agree to an extent.
 
can I break your brain some more RH?

I believe I am a decent human being.

and I am not trolling here, by the standards we live in I consider myself decent.
 
Baxteen said:
can I break your brain some more RH?

I believe I am a decent human being.

and I am not trolling here, by the standards we live in I consider myself decent.
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Maybe its just a values and morals dilemma?

Or growing up in a heavily protected environment?
 
Random Hero said:
What do you mean?
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Pregnancy
Childbirth
New borns
Stress at work/loss of job
Death of a parent
Suicide in family
Death to cancer in family/closed loved one
Car accidents that cause disabilities
Etc etc

Take your pick.

Relationships are only tested and prove their strenght when the **** hits the fan which over a 20-30 year will happen as some time or another.

My wife and I have been together since 1995 - married since 2001 and have weathered a few of the examples given above + even lived apart for a year due to her completing her masters at a university in another part of the country.

getting into a relationship is relativly easy - making it last requires work and effort.

Not all partners grow up at the same rate and sometimes people grow apart.
Sometimes live events create cracks that cause relationships to break up through no fault of either party.

You are very young and naive.
Dont judge people and relationships when you dont (yet) have a clue what you are talking about.
 
OCP said:
You are very young and naive.
Dont judge people and relationships when you dont (yet) have a clue what you are talking about.
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especially when he can't get one off the ground and into the air :p
 
You know... I enjoy creating these threads and talking about relationships and human emotions and attachments, the entire uncontrollable aspects of life and then getting all philosophical about it.

Yes I agree I am naive and ignorant 25 year old.

But as some of you may think I am trolling, which I am not. These discussions really helps my "bubble" expand.
It's comfortable to discuss these topics because it is anonymous and all.. I never get so deep with friends. well sometimes with close friends. but I try to avoid the deep topics. cause no body wants to talk deep when you are enjoying yourselves.

I just have questions and thoughts and I want to hear other opinions and answers.. I get angry about stuff and throw the toys around like a kid but your posts are actually helping.

So thank you
 
Random Hero said:
You know... I enjoy creating these threads and talking about relationships and human emotions and attachments, the entire uncontrollable aspects of life and then getting all philosophical about it.

Yes I agree I am naive and ignorant 25 year old.

But as some of you may think I am trolling, which I am not. These discussions really helps my "bubble" expand.
It's comfortable to discuss these topics because it is anonymous and all.. I never get so deep with friends. well sometimes with close friends. but I try to avoid the deep topics. cause no body wants to talk deep when you are enjoying yourselves.

I just have questions and thoughts and I want to hear other opinions and answers.. I get angry about stuff and throw the toys around like a kid but your posts are actually helping.

So thank you
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This is not discussion to "expand your bubble".

Random Hero said:
douche confirmed...
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Random Hero said:
Dumbest thing i have read today...
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Random Hero said:
Sadistic, Selfish, Sociopathic bag of douche, why deliberately break someone heart? who are you ****in Taio Cruz... Its saddens me that you have this selfish view of life.. you pretty much wrecked people who could have given more to someone who deserves it. now they are probably in such an emotional state that they turn into a sadist like yourself and creates a cluster **** that grows like a pyramid scheme... great job dude

Maar onthou...

Die wiel, hy draai.
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Random Hero said:
You have some sick parasitic circles dude.. how old are you?
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