Why does this happen to me?

Women get upset when men hide and lie about things. Of course she will get upset when you tell her but that is NOTHING in comparison to how betrayed and hurt she would feel knowing you were keeping it under wraps. We are capable of hearing the truth Scotty. But at the end of the day you know your girlfriend best. You know how rational or irrational she can be so it's up to you. I just feel telling her would be the right thing to do. It is what i would want my boyfriend to do if something like this happened. And i can guarantee you i wouldn't unleash hell's fury on him or break up with him.
 
scotty777 said:
how so? I'm now thinking of ways that she(my g/f) might take this, and none of them end well

I know she'll find out though, and I feel a relationship should be made off honesty, and not telling her is just as bad as lying
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Actually maybe not, was the girl drunk?

Seriously, just tell your girlfriend what happened and accept the consequences, honesty is always the best path. It will always make you feel better.
 
Serqet said:
Women get upset when men hide and lie about things. Of course she will get upset when you tell her but that is NOTHING in comparison to how betrayed and hurt she would feel knowing you were keeping it under wraps. We are capable of hearing the truth Scotty. But at the end of the day you know your girlfriend best. You know how rational or irrational she can be so it's up to you. I just feel telling her would be the right thing to do. It is what i would want my boyfriend to do if something like this happened. And i can guarantee you i wouldn't unleash hell's fury on him or break up with him.
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ye, thing is i actually really like her, and I'm just scared of what might happen because of something that i didn't want to happen, something that isn't my fault

Pooky said:
Actually maybe not, was the girl drunk?

Seriously, just tell your girlfriend what happened and accept the consequences, honesty is always the best path. It will always make you feel better.
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we more often then not know the right thing to do, however, doing it is the hard part :(
 
dude either way...telling her or not telling....will lead 2 bad things.... some war paths just not as bad as others...

well anyway strongs from my side... u WILL NEED ALL THE LUCK U CAN GET
 
phoenix911 said:
dude either way...telling her or not telling....will lead 2 bad things.... some war paths just not as bad as others...

well anyway strongs from my side... u WILL NEED ALL THE LUCK U CAN GET
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Na, Scotty you ain't married yet! Besides there are plenty women out there. Cape Town has the best woman around!
 
Tell her you were "off your head" drunk at the New Year party and you can't remember a thing. That way if any stories come out you wouldn't know they happened. :D

Otherwise tell her. I bet she kissed some people last night too.
 
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