Why is a break up hard...

[superfantasties]

who moved away? & why?

Im still studying, she finished and got a job

 

[Jola]

Im still studying, she finished and got a job

That creates some stresses and strains, she's in the real world, and you are not.

IMO you are going to make a mistake that you will regret for the rest of your life. Take next Monday off and spend a four day weekend with her.

 

[superfantasties]

The fact that you are asking this means she cannot be that special to you. Quite sad you can tell us how she is the no 1 thing in your life but you don't actually want to be with her. Makes little to no sense.

Yes its weird, but its how i feel. Its complicated.

Break up and let her find someone who wants her because you just seem unhappy being with her. I can put money on the fact you will be just as unhappy without her and you will regret it because sometimes nothing can make a person happy so you need to think about her and what would be best for her.

Exactly, i dont want to string her along while i deal with my uncertainty, its not fair.

 

[killadoob]

Yup tell her it's done and tell her how you feel. Just do not say it is not you it's me. That never goes down well. Just tell her what you have told us and see the response which i doubt will be great but ya nobody said life was easy.