Why is a break up hard...

Sometimes its not hard.. specially if you're the one doing it
 
It's because you grow an emotional bond to the person, and despite the shyte times, you still have that emotional bond. It's like when a family member dies, and you were responsibly close to that person.

I disagree.. I'm more inclined to think our hands will never be the vagina's we want it to be :(
 
Dude i cant even think of sex now

I hear you dude. I guess it's because when it was good it was really good. We tend to shrug off the reasons it didn't work and the bad times, eventually all that's left is the happy bits. It's a human coping mechanism, but it still makes the early days really hard.

Good luck, I'm there and it ain't pretty.
 
Is the situation really totally irreconcilable?

She's the number one person in my life, but im not ready for commitment... dont know what i really want, its very confusing. But she is very wonderfull, loving. We kinda broke up about this a while back and then kinda got back together but the fact still remains though that im confused,,, i dont want to keep her hanging, she doesn't deserve it :(

Also another issue or two

Damn
 
Do not cut off your nose to spite your face. Rather work through your problems together, it will strengthen the bond.

However, if you feel strongly about it, then walk away and NEVER look back.
 
Do not cut off your nose to spite your face. Rather work through your problems together, it will strengthen the bond.

However, if you feel strongly about it, then walk away and NEVER look back.

Yes but commitment isn't really something you can work thru or negotiate, either you commit or you don't. I can't expect her to keep up with my ambivilance forever
 
If you have doubts about leaving her then maybe you had better be careful about doing something that you will regret.

A relationship is like bone china, you really don't want to chip or crack it, it won't be the same again.

It may be worthwhile going to see a relationship adviser, together, of course.
 
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