Why straight men should explore their butts

Lager said:
Apart from the cancer risk benefit, this is a sexual activity, so expecting sexual related benefits is obvious.

What were you hoping for, tax benefits?
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What do you mean cancer risk benefit? It's the ejaculation which causes this and not anal sex itself. You do know that various human papilloma virus types cause ano-rectal cancer and the only way they can get there is through sex?

Sexual activity

A direct correlation exists between anogenital HPV infection and measures of sexual activity, such as the age of first intercourse and the lifetime number of sexual partners.
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http://emedicine.medscape.com/article/219110-overview#a4

Meanwhile you do not want to do a prostatic massage if you have bacterial prostatitis, it can potentially lead to a lethal septicemia.
 
Space_Chief said:
What do you mean cancer risk benefit? It's the ejaculation which causes this and not anal sex itself. You do know that various human papilloma virus types cause ano-rectal cancer and the only way they can get there is through sex?



http://emedicine.medscape.com/article/219110-overview#a4

Meanwhile you do not want to do a prostatic massage if you have bacterial prostatitis, it can potentially lead to a lethal septicemia.
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why do you think I would contract the HPV virus?
On your second point...

Prostatitis is often described as an infection of the prostate. It can also be an inflammation with no sign of infection. Just 5% to 10% of cases are caused by bacterial infection. It does not raise the risk of getting prostate cancer.
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http://www.webmd.com/men/guide/prostatitis

There's a host of symptoms and one would obviously go to a doctor. I don't think i'd be fooling around there when feeling schit
 
THE HAPPY BOTTOM: TIPS FOR HOTTER & SAFER ANAL SEX

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Anal sex is something that many feel is part and parcel of being gay. Despite this, few of us talk about it and even fewer of us know what we’re doing when we first try it. After all, guides to anal sex are few and far between.

This lack of knowledge and the unfortunate societal taboo associated with the anus (shame, embarrassment and disgust) could lead to unpleasant experiences that may affect the way you feel about anal sex forever.

The most important thing to remember is that anal sex is not mandatory. Many gay men prefer not to have anal sex and have very happy and fulfilling sex lives without it. (Many straight people also enjoy anal sex, so it’s not a ‘gay thing’ at all.) You should never feel pressured into having anal sex if it is something you’re not comfortable with.

But, by knowing more about anal sex you can avoid making your choice about it on the basis of fearing the unknown. Many men who overcome this fear discover that anal sex becomes an important and enjoyable part of their sex lives. If you’re one of those guys, or want to be one of those guys, here are some helpful tips and advice that may help you have a vastly better anal sexual experience.

A BRIEF BIOLOGY LESSON

It helps to understand your anus. This make anal sex less mysterious – and you’ll understand what actually happens when you have a penis in your anus.

The anus is the opening in your butt and extends into a small (about 6 cm) passage. It’s also the entrance to a bigger passage called the rectum. The anus has two rings of muscle (like doors); the external and inner sphincter. You’re usually able to control the external sphincter but not the internal sphincter.

When having anal sex, the penis has to pass through these two sphincters. If these muscles are tense and too tight (perhaps because you’re nervous or tense yourself) it can be painful when a guy tries to penetrate through them.

Once through the sphincter muscles and the anal passage, the penis moves into the rectum, which is about 20 cm long. The anus and the rectum are both able to expand and stretch a great deal and should be able to accommodate any size penis. There is no evidence that having anal sex ﾖ even a lot of it ﾖ can cause your anus to become permanently loose, especially if penetration is done correctly and with the appropriate amount of lube.

WHY IS ANAL SEX ENJOYABLE?

Like your penis, the anus is full of sensitive nerve endings which can make anal play a very sensual experience. When you are penetrated, your prostate gland (located near your bladder) is also stimulated by the penis, which is very pleasurable for many men.

The bottom partner may also enjoy the “full” feeling of having a penis inside him; the intimacy of being penetrated by another man; and the erotic thrill of “being ****ed”. These can all add up to make anal sex an intense sexual experience.

MAKING FRIENDS WITH YOUR ANUS

Before you offer up your anus to a partner, it’s a good idea to spend time getting to know it well. You could start in a warm relaxing bath. Rub the outside gently and with lube insert a finger (or two) inside. When you feel comfortable, you could try use a sex toy, like a dildo, a smaller butt plug or anal beads, with lots of lube. 

It’s best to use a proper sex toy rather than a household item to avoid any embarrassing complications. (Remember to clean sex toys thoroughly with warm soapy water, and for extra protection you can use a condom on your dildo or vibrator.)

The most important thing to remember is to take your time until you’re comfortable and enjoy the sensations you feel. Use plenty of lube and take it slow. You shouldn’t have to hurt yourself and there’s no rush – stop whenever you want to................
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Rest of the article and tips on having clean anal sex is in the link below. This applies to girls and boys (appart from the prostate part and for the straight boys, just replace penis with dildo or finger etc.

http://www.mambaonline.com/2013/04/24/the-happy-bottom-tips-for-hotter-safer-anal-sex/
 
Venomous said:
/wakes this thread

contradiction much?!?
:rolleyes:

(between this and another thread by same OP)
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I think it best to keep the two threads separate and not drag the one into the other. I get exactly what you saying, but I think this thread should be left out of it rather. I dont think because someone is conservetive and offended by somthing silly like a username disallows him from practising what is discussed in this thread. Just my thought on the matter.
 
Lager said:


I can't get the SO to engage in pegging so plugging it is
Tried it twice now butt I don't get the hype. Would like to continue down this road....for all the benefits and such, butt it's lacking satisfaction. Am I doing it wrong?
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Lager said:
So about 30 degrees?
And how far in? Cm?
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Ockie said:
Whatever degrees feel comfortable for you. Apply pressure pressing upward gently and see what feels good for you. Index finger is good to rub your nut. The doctor uses his index finger when checking your prostate. It is a good length for the job. Go in further and you are past the prostate and then you wont feel much. You get prostate massagers that is just the right length (like your index finger basically). Men are different though so you need to see what feels good for you.
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Did you eventually come right?
Excuse the pun.
You a$$hol must have looked like a trampled on chocolate doughnut on a hot summers day when you were finally finished.
 
I thought every guy has had one of those nights alone where you end up bent over with coconut oil all over your fingers :confused:.
 
Rubberpigg said:
Did you eventually come right?
Excuse the pun.
You a$$hol must have looked like a trampled on chocolate doughnut on a hot summers day when you were finally finished.
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Why yes thank you for asking.
What I've come to realise is that relaxation is certainly a very important part of the process.
 
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