Why straight men should explore their butts

I knew a girl who used this as her "get out of jail free card".

I suggested that I was keen on doing anal (me being the giver) and it went down something like this:
Girl(G): I don't know, I'm not really keen but maybe if I could do it to you then I would feel better about it. Seems only fair.
Me(M): Why not? Seems fair and I'm interested to see what its like.
G: Aah ****. I'm really not keen at all. Its never going to happen. Usually when I suggest that guys flat out refuse. Makes saying no much easier.

And then we never did either :(
 
Jehosefat said:
I knew a girl who used this as her "get out of jail free card".

I suggested that I was keen on doing anal (me being the giver) and it went down something like this:
Girl(G): I don't know, I'm not really keen but maybe if I could do it to you then I would feel better about it. Seems only fair.
Me(M): Why not? Seems fair and I'm interested to see what its like.
G: Aah ****. I'm really not keen at all. Its never going to happen. Usually when I suggest that guys flat out refuse. Makes saying no much easier.

And then we never did either :(
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Look, you have to respect peoples boundries. If they really are not comfortable with something that you want to try, then that is their right and it should be respected. Sex is about mutual respect. I do think that people should also be open minded though. Give it a try (safely and slowly) and if you dont like it say so and that is that. /shrug
 
There's some inetresting butt plugs from Mangasm i see

Is a vibrating plug better?
 
Lager said:
So about 30 degrees?
And how far in? Cm?
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Whatever degrees feel comfortable for you. Apply pressure pressing upward gently and see what feels good for you. Index finger is good to rub your nut. The doctor uses his index finger when checking your prostate. It is a good length for the job. Go in further and you are past the prostate and then you wont feel much. You get prostate massagers that is just the right length (like your index finger basically). Men are different though so you need to see what feels good for you.
 
Ockie said:
Whatever degrees feel comfortable for you. Apply pressure pressing upward gently and see what feels good for you. Index finger is good to rub your nut. The doctor uses his index finger when checking your prostate. It is a good length for the job. Go in further and you are past the prostate and then you wont feel much. You get prostate massagers that is just the right length (like your index finger basically). Men are different though so you need to see what feels good for you.
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Ok
 
Ockie said:
Look, you have to respect peoples boundries. If they really are not comfortable with something that you want to try, then that is their right and it should be respected. Sex is about mutual respect. I do think that people should also be open minded though. Give it a try (safely and slowly) and if you dont like it say so and that is that. /shrug
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I was just illustrating how she used that suggestion to try get out of it without saying no. It was not intended to be an indictment of her boundary...
 
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