Yeah, it’s going to be quite inexpensive (in terms of monetary value) and we both end up with nothing from this.
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Barbarian Conan
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I'm the same, but as I found out with an ex who cheated on me (just kissed a guy), nothing good comes of it.
Do you really want to know if he was hung like a horse? Or whatever else you can think of?
If you stay together, it will just make forgiving and forgetting more difficult.
If you split up, what difference does it make?
longboy
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What if he doesn't have a mum?Could we get like a rent-a-mum instead?
Then you man up, get a lil drunk, grab a bottle of lube after watching your fave porn and go bum his dad.
pinball wizard
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You can't put a pricetag on experience.
Smugs
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You'll be ok, nobody died from getting divorced yet. Just take life easy. Go buy a bike and enjoy the rest of your life..
Tabac
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You want him to test this theory ?
gregmcc
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I think Jeff Bezos must have had a heart attack when he got divorced and had to pay out.
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You are a good person, not many men would have been able to have this kind of self control.
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Rocket-Boy
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I still really want to know what her parents think about all of this.
Surely she has told them and has started making plans to move back home?
Surely she has told them and has started making plans to move back home?
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Just to add to this, and I know loads of people have already suggested it, but start speaking to a psychologist asap.
Going to one is not an admission of being "damaged" but will prevent potential issues in the future and assist with this whole process.
Going to one is not an admission of being "damaged" but will prevent potential issues in the future and assist with this whole process.
mercurial
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Encore: Ep. 18 - Scott's Wife's Affair
Podcast Episode · Dear Therapists with Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch · February 17 · 1h 4m
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Smugs
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This and friends... Real good friends that you will trust your life with.. If it was not for my friends I don't know what I would of done...
I agree, it doesn’t really matter. But with regards to the bedroom there was definitely no shortcomings
I agree. In this situation I saw what great friends I actually have. We sometimes don’t realise.
I understand, it definitely helps to speak about. I thought about this all, and how bad it all is. And I’m glad I have a support system. This could make or break a person.
Thank you, I told one of my good friends as well. That it’s not about me being a good person or better than anyone, but I have compassion. And I told her as well that she mustn’t mistake my kindness for weakness.
I’m not jealous, and I don’t hate her.
But she’s not my wife anymore. I will never be able to look at her again.
I don’t think this whole situation has sunk in yet for her. She doesn’t know where here emotions are at. Ofcourse I still love her, but she set fire to our home (metaphorically) and you can’t change or fix what is done.
She only told her mother, and they aren’t really on speaking terms at the moment.
Azbubu
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That’s what you think.