Wife cheated

[RedViking]

I would also recommend waiting a bit in a normal marriage situation. This seems really different though, she didnt even want to try work it out, she just wanted out.
With no kids, age and how badly all of this went down, I would say end it and move on. Its probably best for both parties.

Well, you never know. There might be a kid soon.

 

[Rocket-Boy]

Well, you never know. There might be a kid soon.

Flip I hope not!!
I cant even imagine how hard it must have been for OP getting blindsided like this.

 

[Jean Claude Vaaldamme]

I would at the very least separate before making big decisions. But that is just me. Divorce to me is a last resort and also the easy way out. I would have told her on the first day to pack her bags and go stay with her parents or where ever and then give myself time to think about it and make rational decisions and also gives me time to find the man she slept with and how I will deal with him.

You sound like a father a few years ago who bought his son some fast Merc and the son drove like a maniac and got killed. The father then wanted to sue MB because they make such fast cars.
The wife cheated on him, not the the other guy. He has nothing to do with the situation. If he did not sleep with her, she would have just slept with someone else.

 

[longboy]

I would at the very least separate before making big decisions. But that is just me. Divorce to me is a last resort and also the easy way out. I would have told her on the first day to pack her bags and go stay with her parents or where ever and then give myself time to think about it and make rational decisions and also gives me time to find the man she slept with and how I will deal with him.

I would thank the man who slept with my wife, he saved me a lot of future headaches. If she slept with him, it is 50/50.

 

[Sinbad]

There's a Polish saying that goes (translated):

If there is rust in the ceiling, the cellar is damp.

'n rooikop wat nie naai is ge-dye

 

[RedViking]

You sound like a father a few years ago who bought his son some fast Merc and the son drove like a maniac and got killed. The father then wanted to sue MB because they make such fast cars.
The wife cheated on him, not the the other guy. He has nothing to do with the situation. If he did not sleep with her, she would have just slept with someone else.

Bull. My wife. Not yours. Get it in your head.

 

[Azbubu]

And if he knew she was married?

So? He’s not your friend. He doesn’t owe you anything. Don’t blame him for your wife not being able to keep her dick in her skirt.

 

[Napalm2880]

It’s been 7 days since this whole thing started, or rather escalated. And she shows no remorse whatsoever.

From what I understand (from a friend who went through something similar), this is textbook narcissistic personality disorder.

 

[Ancalagon]

Bull. My wife. Not yours. Get it in your head.

Both parties at fault.

If you are banging a married woman, you ought to ask yourself whether you are doing the right thing. And, if you are married, you ought to not be sleeping around (but you should know this).

 

[RedViking]

Both parties at fault.

If you are banging a married woman, you ought to ask yourself whether you are doing the right thing. And, if you are married, you ought to not be sleeping around (but you should know this).

Of course both parties are at fault. Both parties will be dealt with. The one will just wish it was never born.

 

[Azbubu]

Of course both parties are at fault. Both parties will be dealt with. The one will just wish it was never born.

It’s a good thing other men don’t want your ugly wife or you’d have been beaten to a pulp by now with your attitude.

 

[RedViking]

It’s a good thing other men don’t want your ugly wife or you’d have been beaten to a pulp by now with your attitude.

You can plead until you are blue in the face. You don't touch my wife. Why is this so difficult for you to understand?

 

[Azbubu]

You can plead until you are blue in the face. You don't touch my wife. Why is this so difficult for you to understand?

To you she’s your wife, to us she’s just another woman. Why’s it so difficult for you to understand that we don’t care about your marriage?

 

[RedViking]

To you she’s your wife, to us she’s just another woman. Why’s it so difficult for you to understand that we don’t care about your marriage?

I don't care what you think. You don't touch my wife. Stay away. Hamba wena.

 

[Azbubu]

I don't care what you think. You don't touch my wife. Stay away. Hamba wena.

I didn’t even want your wife but now I just want to spite you. PM me your address, please.

 

[Sinbad]

I didn’t even want your wife but now I just want to spite you. PM me your address, please.

And pics of wife

 

[RedViking]

I didn’t even want your wife but now I just want to spite you. PM me your address, please.

'tsek.

 

[EADC]

You can plead until you are blue in the face. You don't touch my wife. Why is this so difficult for you to understand?

What if someone does not know she is your wife?

 

[B-1]

You can plead until you are blue in the face. You don't touch my wife. Why is this so difficult for you to understand?

The fact that you claim ownership of her raises many alarm bells.

 

[3WA]

And pics of wife

So we know who to avoid, right?