Will you cheat?

Will you cheat on your partner?

  • Yes

    Votes: 39 20.7%

  • No

    Votes: 149 79.3%
  • Total voters
    188
I've been in a very strange situation some years back. My girlfriend at the time moved down to Cape Town from the Garden Route to live with me, and after 2 years she comes come all smiles and says "Hey, I've been transferred back to the George branch, I start 1st of June!' Now bear in mind this was middle of February. She would have to stay with me until then. So basically, we're breaking up in four months' time.

So I cheated from that point onwards, knowing the relationship was dead in the water anyway.
 
Slootvreter said:
I've been in a very strange situation some years back. My girlfriend at the time moved down to Cape Town from the Garden Route to live with me, and after 2 years she comes come all smiles and says "Hey, I've been transferred back to the George branch, I start 1st of June!' Now bear in mind this was middle of February. She would have to stay with me until then. So basically, we're breaking up in four months' time.

So I cheated from that point onwards, knowing the relationship was dead in the water anyway.
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why don't you break up now? you can still live together
 
I.am.Sam said:
looks = confidence
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You're basically saying low weight equals confidence.Sorry but I cant agree,I used to be 80kgs and I'm now 110kgs,I'm still as confident as ever regardless of how much I weight.

I'm in a relationship so I wouldn't cheat because I'm pretty happy and content with my wife and son but there is no doubt that when you weigh 80 kg you literally get women picking you up where as that very rarely happens when you weigh 110 kg,lol confidence has nothing to do with it.Women find a guy that weighs 80 kg more attractive than a guy that weighs 110 kg its that simple.Ask any women/girl here.

I better start gym again,because the minute I left gym 3 years ago all that muscle turned into fat :p
 
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falcon786 said:
You're basically saying low weight equals confidence.Sorry but I cant agree,I used to be 80kgs and I'm now 110kgs,I'm still as confident as ever regardless of how much I weight.

I'm in a relationship so I wouldn't cheat because I'm pretty happy and content with my wife and son but there is no doubt that when you weigh 80 kg you literally get women picking you up where as that very rarely happens when you weigh 110 kg,lol confidence has nothing to do with it.Women find a guy that weighs 80 kg more attractive than a guy that weighs 110 kg its that simple.Ask any women/girl here.

I better start gym again,because the minute I left gym 3 years ago all that muscle turned into fat :p
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not necessarily...
 
STS said:
why don't you break up now? you can still live together
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I.am.Sam said:
yeah STS has balls

not sure how he does it but yeah

and we in august ...

slootvreter gf is probably pregnant by now
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HTF do you and STS read? He said "some years back" and "girlfriend at the time".

STS did you also go to UWC? I heard once you graduate there you have to learn to read and write all over again, its pretty evident from Sam's posts, but you?
/shakes head
 
falcon786 said:
Care to elaborate?
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Depends what the 110kg consists of...
And I prefer my boyfriend with a few extra kgs on him :o
Although he is still nearly half of 110 :p

And personally, I tend to look more at the way someone is dressed and groomed than their body shape, really :confused:
 
falcon786 said:
I'm in a relationship so I wouldn't cheat because I'm pretty happy and content with my wife and son but there is no doubt that when you weigh 80 kg you literally get women picking you up where as that very rarely happens when you weigh 110 kg,lol confidence has nothing to do with it.Women find a guy that weighs 80 kg more attractive than a guy that weighs 110 kg its that simple.Ask any women/girl here.
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I find that must be your opinion because this is not what I have found.

I have however found that the smile you wear can also get the job done easily.
 
There's a big difference between ego and confidence.
Also I think some peoples mirrors don't work...
 
YingYang said:
HTF do you and STS read? He said "some years back" and "girlfriend at the time".

STS did you also go to UWC? I heard once you graduate there you have to learn to read and write all over again, its pretty evident from Sam's posts, but you?
/shakes head
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in my defence i haven't eaten that much today :p and i'm drooling at all this talk of eating and masturbating

i think it was the way he switched the tense suddenly :D

So basically, we're breaking up in four months' time.
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googoodoll said:
Not everyone can live with someone they love/d and watch them fool around with other people
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I.am.Sam said:
yeah STS has balls

not sure how he does it but yeah

and we in august ...

slootvreter gf is probably pregnant by now
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i'm doing that now, although i have zero romantic/sexual attraction to her now, so she is just a family member as she is the mother of my son
 
googoodoll said:
Depends what the 110kg consists of...
And I prefer my boyfriend with a few extra kgs on him :o
Although he is still nearly half of 110 :p

And personally, I tend to look more at the way someone is dressed and groomed than their body shape, really :confused:
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Have to admit if I had to choose between two very similar guys and the only issue was 80kg's versus 110 kg's I would pick the heavier one :o
 
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