"Adventurous" things to do on first date

[Morgoth]

take her to McDonnalds, afterwards, watch porn, pizza and drink beer, then you know she is a keeper.

 

[BinaryJack]

- paintball only if she doesn't look like she might die as a result..

Yes, aiming for her head will be counter-productive.

 

[Smooth Criminal]

take her to McDonnalds, afterwards, watch porn, pizza and drink beer, then you know she is a keeper.

What he said

Yes, aiming for her head will be counter-productive.

Might backfire anyway if she aims for his head - that'll kill any chance of hooking up after the match

 

[Kuga]

I would NOT take any chick on a picnic on the first date!

..don't set the bar TOO high because if she thinks you are super rich then she's gonna expect more of those when you are actually dating

This. I can't stress to my mates how important this is. Once that bar is set, a woman will try and milk you for everything IF there is no infatuation from her side.

 

[guest2013-1]

Howzit guys

OKay, I need some advice please... It's been a while and well, yes, I'm quite out of the "game" and my creativity levels are also quite low.

There's this girl I've been seeing now for a while and we are going "officially" on a date tonight.

Now I'm looking for something interesting and adventurous to do. Not the old cliché movie and dinner thing.
So far I thought of sunset picnic at the river... Keep in mind I'm not located in JHB or DBN or CPT or any big capital for that matter So I don't have that big variety of things to choose from.

Anyhowz, any advice would be appreciated!

Thanks in advance!
Regards

unprotected sex is always adventurous

 

[krycor]

Yes, aiming for her head will be counter-productive.

but its bonus points!!

 

[BinaryJack]

but its bonus points!!

No, there will be no scoring!

 

[Quest10n]

Howzit guys

OKay, I need some advice please... It's been a while and well, yes, I'm quite out of the "game" and my creativity levels are also quite low.

There's this girl I've been seeing now for a while and we are going "officially" on a date tonight.

Now I'm looking for something interesting and adventurous to do. Not the old cliché movie and dinner thing.
So far I thought of sunset picnic at the river... Keep in mind I'm not located in JHB or DBN or CPT or any big capital for that matter So I don't have that big variety of things to choose from.

Anyhowz, any advice would be appreciated!

Thanks in advance!
Regards

Does it really matter where you are to be adventurous

 

[wishblade]

My gf and I have been together for most of 2 1/2 yeras now - we met and started dating in potch...

/ah... the memories...

anyway, since there really is nothing much to do in potch, you really got to be creative. Our first(ish) date was me cooking her dinner, then drinks at Picaso's, and then a bottle of wine or two sitting on the grass area at potch dam at night (don't go too late - they didn't like to let people in after a specific time). Either that worked, or I'm a really charming guy

But, it was a simple approach that didn't require trying hard (so nothing was forced), and it allowed us to get to know each better - plenty of conversation time, subliminly aided by the bottles of wines

 

[FuNkEr]

then drinks at Picaso's,

'Ya Picasso's always a winner

Sheeesh, I can't remember when last I LOL'ed so much to some of these replies

Nice thinking guys, keep 'em coming

Thanks though!

 

[tco21]

take her to McDonnalds, afterwards, watch porn, pizza and drink beer, then you know she is Keeper.

'Ya Picasso's always a winner

Picasso's in Villeria rocks!

 

[porn$tar]

The Dirty Sanchez is always a winner, but don't take my word for it...

 

[boramk]

Give her anal when shes not looking

 

[porn$tar]

Give her anal when shes not looking

Like when you're giving her a back massage. You're straddling her and she's already oiled up.

 

[BinaryJack]

Like when you're giving her a back massage. You're straddling her and she's already oiled up.

and then tell her that your sister/cousin is better in bed and see how long you can stay on.

 

[porn$tar]

and then tell her that your sister/cousin is better in bed and see how long you can stay on.

When you can't hold on anymore, a Donkey Punch will take the fight out of her for sure.

 

[DJ...]

Just came back from doing some shopping... I decided on the picnic thing after all, bought some nice goodies and some good wine.

This is only non-clichéd if you actually do the cooking. Otherwise, well, it's still fairly clichéd, and dangerous. Oh, and there's no real privacy as well. Nothing like a dog doing its business 5 metres from where you just planned to shove a shop-bought cocktail vienna down her throat.

Afterwards I thought we could go ten-pin bowling (should be fun).

Don't be surprised if she declines to play, on the basis that she just had her nails done in preparation of this "big-date".

And then maybe some cocktails at a chill-lounge.

See you're doing everything to "try" to please her, which is admirable but quite transparent. Women are complicated creatures and see this as a sign of guys not being themselves.

My point? It's about 10% where you are and what you do. 90% who you are and how you act. Good luck...