age aint nuttin but a thang

-LiLiTh- said:
:whistle:

Not that much younger, so I'm basically the reverse role...

I don't like the "young, naive and delusional" comments though, I find it quite offensive.
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I'm speaking from personal experience honeybun :) all the way down to if you're not on MXIT often enough you apparently don't care and she's gonna dump you :rolleyes: Not that I have dated many girls but from my own experience plus observation of others it seems pretty much the norm.

If it helps many guys including myself are even worse :p I'm still young. I'm the type who would freak out easy when a girl turns her back on my affection so I'm far from mature. But I know the best type of girl is the one that changes you for the better, so in my case a more mature person who sees the good in me but is emotionally independent/hardened enough to easily tell me to go to hell (in a good way) if I don't make a plan..well that would make me want to work for it for the better wouldn't it? Rather than a whiner who is never happy with you.

That is far better IMO than a girl who turns her back or always wants you to chase but never returns any affection or finds petty excuses for a fight through a simple misused word or misunderstood behaviour (based on inexperience and poor understanding and immaturity). For instance and as an extreme many young girls like the whole hollywood vibe and are all about meeting mr right and falling in love and making lots of babies and sailing into the sunset. As a guy if you can't provide that you're screwed but don't expect anything in return lol. There is nothing wrong with dreams but don't impose it on a partner who does care about you, common mistake young people make I feel. Quite simply they are not mature enough to hold a proper relationship.

But I'm not saying every single person is like that either and there is not a definitive correlation with age and maturity but it does help. Maybe you're different so no offense intended.
 
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Jonny Two Shoes said:
I'm speaking from personal experience honeybun :) all the way down to if you're not on MXIT often enough you apparently don't care and she's gonna dump you :rolleyes: Not that I have dated many girls but from my own experience plus observation of others it seems pretty much the norm.

If it helps many guys including myself are even worse :p I'm still young. I'm the type who would freak out easy when a girl turns her back on my affection so I'm far from mature. But I know the best type of girl is the one that changes you for the better, so in my case a more mature person who sees the good in me but is emotionally independent/hardened enough to easily tell me to go to hell (in a good way) if I don't make a plan..well that would make me want to work for it for the better wouldn't it? Rather than a whiner who is never happy with you.

That is far better IMO than a girl who turns her back or always wants you to chase but never returns any affection or finds petty excuses for a fight through a simple misused word or misunderstood behaviour (based on inexperience and poor understanding and immaturity). For instance and as an extreme many young girls like the whole hollywood vibe and are all about meeting mr right and falling in love and making lots of babies and sailing into the sunset. As a guy if you can't provide that you're screwed but don't expect anything in return lol. There is nothing wrong with dreams but don't impose it on a partner who does care about you, common mistake young people make I feel. Quite simply they are not mature enough to hold a proper relationship.

But I'm not saying every single person is like that either and there is not a definitive correlation with age and maturity but it does help. Maybe you're different so no offense intended.
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After reading your post everything started making sense in my somewhat relationship...thank you for this;)
 
bwana said:
Maybe she could do the math and then tell us?
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dont wanna give to much away..i should of said between:D

SOme how she is using me as she want to move in with me after just 2 weeks.....wrong,wrong.Also i am a bit irritated with the no care attitude when it comes to safe sex.I mean i wanted to sleep with her but pulled back:D cause she never even mentioned to me about a condom, i am a bit nervous for this attitude.

I basically ended the relationship,but the sex ooohhh man...*pinches bitchkillaz head*
 
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