Anorgasmia

50CentShort said:
We had a very open discussion about things a few days after I posted on here.

We spoke about EVERYTHING that I said I would. It was a constructive discussion, and the bottom line is that we have quite differing views on our sexuality. I'm a lot more open and she is a lot more conservative.

A lot of this I knew already, but I wanted to give her another change to put everything on the table. She has no history of sexual abuse, and Ockie you were right she does view masturbation as "wrong" but couldn't explain why. She was "taught" that it was wrong. I challenged her view and said that as an adult one needs to be more open minded about things and not confined to the ways you were taught when you were 12.

A few nights ago we tried something different where she was on top. Instead of the ol' up and down she tried a more front to back movement which seemed to work for her. She seems to like strong maintained pressure on the clitoris area. Something that the pubic bone gave her with this movement.

She said that she felt it was different and that it could definitely work if we went on long enough. Unfortunately this evening I didn't last quite long enough.

Last night we tried it again, except this time I lasted a lot longer and she managed to climax! :)
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Congrats man.

And so your journey starts. She'll be craving different now more often and it's going to get very exciting. Sit back and enjoy :p
 
skeptic_SA said:
Give that man a BELLS
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Ockie said:
Lekker lekker soos 'n cracker.

I am glad your lady had a good experience. And hopefully she will have many more to cum. :D
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Akasha said:
Good for you! Some women can't cum from penetration only. Some of us need penetration and clitoral stimulation. She'll get there even quicker when you introduce other things :D
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Pitbull said:
Congrats man.

And so your journey starts. She'll be craving different now more often and it's going to get very exciting. Sit back and enjoy :p
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Thanks everyone :)
 
50CentShort said:
We had a very open discussion about things a few days after I posted on here.

We spoke about EVERYTHING that I said I would. It was a constructive discussion, and the bottom line is that we have quite differing views on our sexuality. I'm a lot more open and she is a lot more conservative.

A lot of this I knew already, but I wanted to give her another change to put everything on the table. She has no history of sexual abuse, and Ockie you were right she does view masturbation as "wrong" but couldn't explain why. She was "taught" that it was wrong. I challenged her view and said that as an adult one needs to be more open minded about things and not confined to the ways you were taught when you were 12.

A few nights ago we tried something different where she was on top. Instead of the ol' up and down she tried a more front to back movement which seemed to work for her. She seems to like strong maintained pressure on the clitoris area. Something that the pubic bone gave her with this movement.

She said that she felt it was different and that it could definitely work if we went on long enough. Unfortunately this evening I didn't last quite long enough.

Last night we tried it again, except this time I lasted a lot longer and she managed to climax! :)
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One word of advise:

Hitachi Wand

PM me for details if you've googled and Mrs is curious. Its NOT conventional looking. And YES it DOES work for sports injuries too. Fekking expensive - but a contact brings in a few every month direct from the states. He has a waiting list a mile long... Bit JUST coz of your case - i will pull ALL strings to get you ahead of the queue.
 
skeptic_SA said:
One word of advise:

Hitachi Wand

PM me for details if you've googled and Mrs is curious. Its NOT conventional looking. And YES it DOES work for sports injuries too. Fekking expensive - but a contact brings in a few every month direct from the states. He has a waiting list a mile long... Bit JUST coz of your case - i will pull ALL strings to get you ahead of the queue.
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I have seen these online before... :eek:

Maybe I should get one for my neck ;) I will most definitely keep this offer in mind, thank you so much! Very kind of you!
 
50CentShort said:
I have seen these online before... :eek:

Maybe I should get one for my neck ;) I will most definitely keep this offer in mind, thank you so much! Very kind of you!
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I shyte you NOT ! A few weeks back i strained my neck (DO NOT ASK). SO used her wand to massage me... Good gard. It worked. And fast too.

It has two settings.
She calls them: OH YES.
And OMFGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Ancalagon said:
Tell her to pee before sex.

Her problem sounds psychological though. Many women "squirt" during orgasm, and scientists have discovered that most of the squirt is actually pee. So, she would literally be peeing herself. Some women squirt more than others - sounds like your wife is a squirter.
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"Scientists"
 
By looking at the squirting videos on the internet, you don't need to be a "scientist" to figure that out...
 
skeptic_SA said:
I shyte you NOT ! A few weeks back i strained my neck (DO NOT ASK). SO used her wand to massage me... Good gard. It worked. And fast too.

It has two settings.
She calls them: OH YES.
And OMFGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I've read that it's not a good idea to get one if your woman is not used to vibes already? As in, might be way too much for her
 
50CentShort said:
I've read that it's not a good idea to get one if your woman is not used to vibes already? As in, might be way too much for her
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Then stick to setting 1 for the first few days / weeks / months. My SO has a collection of intimate personal devices. Actually quite a large collection. All amassed BEFORE we met... Since getting her the wand - she has not used any of them (barring her rabbit ears). The first time she used the wand. She honestly could not get off the couch for about 30 minutes. Her orgasm was THAT intense.
 
skeptic_SA said:
One word of advise:

Hitachi Wand

PM me for details if you've googled and Mrs is curious. Its NOT conventional looking. And YES it DOES work for sports injuries too. Fekking expensive - but a contact brings in a few every month direct from the states. He has a waiting list a mile long... Bit JUST coz of your case - i will pull ALL strings to get you ahead of the queue.
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How the hell does this thing work? Does that head thing do like "punching" motion or someting? :eek:

Hitachi-HV-260-Original-Magic-Wand.jpg
 
skeptic_SA said:
Then stick to setting 1 for the first few days / weeks / months. My SO has a collection of intimate personal devices. Actually quite a large collection. All amassed BEFORE we met... Since getting her the wand - she has not used any of them (barring her rabbit ears). The first time she used the wand. She honestly could not get off the couch for about 30 minutes. Her orgasm was THAT intense.
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Yeah...... I'm gonna need one of those!
 
I Thought I clicked on the MTN thread. Was thinking, "derailment of the fscking century"

Congrats op!

/leaves
 
Ockie said:
If you have something to say about the Hep B vaccine or me making use of it, I suggest you go post it in the relevant thread.
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I'm like that little STD you could never get rid of, no matter how many vaccines you get. This is what happens when you fsck around in too many threads.
 
50CentShort said:
We had a very open discussion about things a few days after I posted on here.

We spoke about EVERYTHING that I said I would. It was a constructive discussion, and the bottom line is that we have quite differing views on our sexuality. I'm a lot more open and she is a lot more conservative.

A lot of this I knew already, but I wanted to give her another change to put everything on the table. She has no history of sexual abuse, and Ockie you were right she does view masturbation as "wrong" but couldn't explain why. She was "taught" that it was wrong. I challenged her view and said that as an adult one needs to be more open minded about things and not confined to the ways you were taught when you were 12.

A few nights ago we tried something different where she was on top. Instead of the ol' up and down she tried a more front to back movement which seemed to work for her. She seems to like strong maintained pressure on the clitoris area. Something that the pubic bone gave her with this movement.

She said that she felt it was different and that it could definitely work if we went on long enough. Unfortunately this evening I didn't last quite long enough.

Last night we tried it again, except this time I lasted a lot longer and she managed to climax! :)
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:D
Well done, now keep it up!! Practice makes perfect.
 
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