I'm still quite happy living in SA and I wasn't addressing that at all.
I was questioning your measure of success seemingly relating to how well off people are by observation only.
Most of them I also know and what I have seen aligns with how they are and what they do.
Everything you alluded to in your first post ties in with having money available in some way, shape, or form to be able to do the things they so casually do from your observation.
Wrong. The following don't cost money:
Walking along Kloof street and visiting some friends who live closeby, and just chatting to them and meeting them up in a park, the sidewalk, or in a bar, and not even drinking anything.
Walking on an unspoilt beach.
Hiking up Table Mountain.
Jogging morning early on Seapoint Promenade.
Being invited by richer friends to go 4x4 at Atlantis.
Being friendly, innovative, charismatic, and helpful at your workplace and running around in a frokkie and helping everyone who needs help.
Voluntary work and smiling while doing it.
Cleaning up some beach.
I can go on... main thing is the attitude associated with those people. And that you cannot do those things in Europe with such an attitude, smiling, and with sun on your face.