Being oblivious

Oblivious my whole life.

I missed all the club advances, suggestions for dates, flirting, etc... all throughout School, University, and the first few years of my career.

I'm now married (she was just a bit more straightforward on what she wanted), with 2 kids, and have a bucket full of what-ifs that I ponder every now and then.
 
OK so last night out of the blue a girl I worked with about 3 years back sends me a message and says we should go for coffee. Is this a sign that I might have missed something 3 years back?

The last thing I need is another what-if.
 
heartbroken said:
OK so last night out of the blue a girl I worked with about 3 years back sends me a message and says we should go for coffee. Is this a sign that I might have missed something 3 years back?

The last thing I need is another what-if.
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Nope. It is a sign that you are going to miss something now. It's available now.
 
RonSwanson said:
I believe that men should do the chasing, not the women. Don't stop anything, there's nothing to stop.
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Until you chase and ignore the stop signs and the cops arrive one day to arrest you.

To the OP, I will never, ever stop being confused by women. I've had numerous discussions with my current partner who is at least honest enough to admit that "she would find women just as confusing if she had to date them". Hell, even when I asked her out for a second date she still thought I was only interested in being friends with her because she was so used to guys just jumping her even when she wasn't interested.

I've basically gotten to the point where I straight up tell women in very simple language that I am interested in them as more than friends and if they are interested they must let me know (it's what eventually led to my partner and I getting together). I have tried the whole "kiss em and see what happens approach" once and it didn't sit well with me, so now I just tell them and leave them alone. If they like me they tend to reach out.
 
heartbroken said:
OK so last night out of the blue a girl I worked with about 3 years back sends me a message and says we should go for coffee. Is this a sign that I might have missed something 3 years back?

The last thing I need is another what-if.
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Go and see what happens. Could be nothing, could be something. A lot can happen in three years.
 
heartbroken said:
OK so last night out of the blue a girl I worked with about 3 years back sends me a message and says we should go for coffee. Is this a sign that I might have missed something 3 years back?
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No ffs it's a sign you're missing something right now.
 
I just remembered one, I asked a girl for a favour and she was super into coming over and helping me out with something.

Anyway that morning I sent her a chuck Norris meme and then she suddenly had an emergency.
 
heartbroken said:
OK so last night out of the blue a girl I worked with about 3 years back sends me a message and says we should go for coffee. Is this a sign that I might have missed something 3 years back?

The last thing I need is another what-if.
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I see you’ve got some advice already, but be careful of those who just dish out advice without doing any due diligence.

I will lend you my wisdom but want to make sure I advise responsibly. Please send pics so I can advise you correctly.
 
HunterNW said:
I'll give more advice. You ask her. Do you want to fck ? Yes - High five, No - Ask the next one.
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LOL, years ago, one very drunken night at Bulldogs in Strand...

My buddy looks at me and says, Bru, dare. Walk up to 10 different chicks and ask them if they want to go fool around. So I did, 3 said yes, 4 no's and 2 moerse klappe. I stopped after klap number two.
 
ChuckMeFarley said:
LOL, years ago, one very drunken night at Bulldogs in Strand...

My buddy looks at me and says, Bru, dare. Walk up to 10 different chicks and ask them if they want to go fool around. So I did, 3 said yes, 4 no's and 2 moerse klappe. I stopped after klap number two.
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You didn't f'off with the first yes? :unsure:
 
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