Clinginess- Warning of something else

[Pho3nix]

Hi all,

I met a nice girl who was pretty, intelligent...basically ticked all the right boxes and to top it off we get along great even though she is marginally older then me (28).
Now here is the thing; she seems a little clingy, don't know if I'm imagining it or what but my gut says run for the hills while my head just thinks she is a little enthusiastic and cares for me.

Eg. She "acts" up when I don't speak to her for a day or two :erm:. Even when she knows I'm out and about. Will add a more in-depth example when I get home but what is clingy in your opinion and what has been your experience with clingy women.

Thanks

 

[azbob]

You're terrible. You should say Hi to her at least once a day. tsk tsk.

 

[genetic]

What abzo said!

You haven't spoken to her in two days?

WTF is wrong with you

 

[Pho3nix]

You're terrible. You should say Hi to her at least once a day. tsk tsk.

8 missed calls + 10 whatsapp messages when she knew I was out with some friends for a weekend? I'm terrible??
Mind you we aren't official and still in the friends phase

 

[Compton_effect]

28, clingy, over-enthusiastic, gets a bit ape when you don't call her.
You're in the friend phase. She's looking for a husband.
Unless you are looking to get married - walk away very fast.

 

[azbob]

8 missed calls + 10 whatsapp messages when she knew I was out with some friends for a weekend? I'm terrible??
Mind you we aren't official and still in the friends phase

She was worried about you! Sweet girl, bless her heart.

 

[bwana]

Stop being so distant.

And it's clinginess.

 

[The_Unbeliever]

28, clingy, over-enthusiastic, gets a bit ape when you don't call her.
You're in the friend phase. She's looking for a husband.
Unless you are looking to get married - walk away very fast.

Eeee-yep.

 

[The_Unbeliever]

Stop being so distant.

And it's clinginess.

Then fix the title, oh Grammar Nazi

 

[STS]

You're a terrible man, contact her every day

 

[USZA]

8 missed calls + 10 whatsapp messages when she knew I was out with some friends for a weekend? I'm terrible??
Mind you we aren't official and still in the friends phase

Sounds like the stalker I had recently :wtf:

Run Forrest!!!!

 

[Pho3nix]

Stop being so distant.

And it's clinginess.

LOL only saw that after I had posted. Can anyone of you wonderful mods assist

 

[Pho3nix]

Sounds like the stalker I had recently :wtf:

Run Forrest!!!!

how'd you get rid of her if you don't mind me asking

 

[Pho3nix]

You're a terrible man, contact her every day

She was worried about you! Sweet girl, bless her heart.

:twisted:

 

[BloodrayneZA]

8 missed calls + 10 whatsapp messages when she knew I was out with some friends for a weekend? I'm terrible??
Mind you we aren't official and still in the friends phase

Sounds like my ex. Drop her like a hot potato and run.

 

[Pho3nix]

Sounds like my ex. Drop her like a hot potato and run.

Just ignoring her seems so impersonal..(read: I'm already doing that and it's not working).
Never been too good at breaking bad news to people..

 

[BloodrayneZA]

Just ignoring her seems so impersonal..(read: I'm already doing that and it's not working).
Never been too good at breaking bad news to people..

me neither. But you have to be honest and tell her the truth - that way you will not be bombarded with messages all day long.

 

[Compton_effect]

This could be a bit of a out of the box one. But have you tried brutal honesty?
By 28 most people don't have time for bs.

 

[DerpiesFreud]

I only learnt after my concussion,cleanliness is bad!
if she`s like that now,Imagine when things get serious and you get married :erm:
Maybe talk to her about it? without incurring her wraith and anger ofcourse...

 

[azbob]

She's clearly too mature for you. Don't waste her time. Send her the heartbroken whatsapp smiley.