Clinginess- Warning of something else

Pho3nix said:
8 missed calls + 10 whatsapp messages when she knew I was out with some friends for a weekend? I'm terrible??
Mind you we aren't official and still in the friends phase
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If you tapped it then you're past the friends stage, no matter what you think.
 
maybe tell her that you appreciate her being so clingy but you would like some space and for her to understand that if you are busy and don't reply then she should wait till you do, but if you are interested in taking things to another level then greet the girl in the morning and when you get home tell her you home. remember some people want to find their life partner after 25/26/27 so maybe she trying to get serious
 
gdiza said:
My girlfriend will beat me if I don't message here at least once or twice a day.

:D Clingy? Or... D D Dangerous! :)
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Never got this though.. To say what? You live together I assume so aren't you going to catch-up at night on what your got up to during the day?
 
adam1234 said:
maybe tell her that you appreciate her being so clingy but you would like some space and for her to understand that if you are busy and don't reply then she should wait till you do, but if you are interested in taking things to another level then greet the girl in the morning and when you get home tell her you home. remember some people want to find their life partner after 25/26/27 so maybe she trying to get serious
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She is very well aware that I'm not even thinking kids or marriage for another 8-10 years
 
Pho3nix said:
Nah, never even copped a feel.
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Eish!

If you think she is worth a bit of effort then let her know you're feeling like you're on a leash and there is no future in that.

All chicks are crazy man, you need to do some work to separate the CRAZY crazy from the normal crazy.

If she cant loosen the grip then walk away. Dont run. Walk like all those dudes with the explosions in the background. If you can throw in a "I only use leashes in the bedroom babe, we are over" in there then more for the win.
 
Madman88 said:
Eish!

If you think she is worth a bit of effort then let her know you're feeling like you're on a leash and there is no future in that.

All chicks are crazy man, you need to do some work to separate the CRAZY crazy from the normal crazy.

If she cant loosen the grip then walk away. Dont run. Walk like all those dudes with the explosions in the background. If you can throw in a "I only use leashes in the bedroom babe, we are over" in there then more for the win.
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Wise man. All of the above is stuff I wished I'd known at 24. Would have gotten laid more and slapped less.
 
Pho3nix said:
how'd you get rid of her if you don't mind me asking
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Actually, she was a serious serial stalker. Was stalking me and a number of other guys at the same time - a trace on her phone records revealed this. She had an existing restraining order against her and a court case coming up next month for the same thing.

I had a lawyer friend call her and threaten her with another restraining order. I still see her in church but she's so **** scared of even looking at me because my friend told her that he'll slap her with a restraining order if she even as much as looked at me.
 
nukefission said:
I only learnt after my concussion,cleanliness is bad!
if she`s like that now,Imagine when things get serious and you get married :erm:
Maybe talk to her about it? without incurring her wraith and anger ofcourse...
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Just how dirty do you like em?
 
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