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Compton_effect
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Clinginess- Warning of something else
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Mars
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If you tapped it then you're past the friends stage, no matter what you think.
medicnick83
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My girlfriend will beat me if I don't message here at least once or twice a day.
Clingy? Or... D D Dangerous!
Clingy? Or... D D Dangerous! 
Pho3nix
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Nah, never even copped a feel.
maybe tell her that you appreciate her being so clingy but you would like some space and for her to understand that if you are busy and don't reply then she should wait till you do, but if you are interested in taking things to another level then greet the girl in the morning and when you get home tell her you home. remember some people want to find their life partner after 25/26/27 so maybe she trying to get serious
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My girlfriend will beat me if I don't message here at least once or twice a day.
Never got this though.. To say what? You live together I assume so aren't you going to catch-up at night on what your got up to during the day?
Compton_effect
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Brutal honesty. Before its too late.
My girlfriend will beat me if I don't message here at least once or twice a day.
lol i just say.... babes, I'm working late, chat tomorrow, and then I'm free to do whatever i want
Pho3nix
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She is very well aware that I'm not even thinking kids or marriage for another 8-10 years
OGroteKoning
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Point her to this threadJust ignoring her seems so impersonal..(read: I'm already doing that and it's not working).
Never been too good at breaking bad news to people..
Pho3nix
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Mars
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Eish!
If you think she is worth a bit of effort then let her know you're feeling like you're on a leash and there is no future in that.
All chicks are crazy man, you need to do some work to separate the CRAZY crazy from the normal crazy.
If she cant loosen the grip then walk away. Dont run. Walk like all those dudes with the explosions in the background. If you can throw in a "I only use leashes in the bedroom babe, we are over" in there then more for the win.
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we need to get you a new identity then
OGroteKoning
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You want to see what a clingy chick looks like?
Compton_effect
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Wise man. All of the above is stuff I wished I'd known at 24. Would have gotten laid more and slapped less.
Actually, she was a serious serial stalker. Was stalking me and a number of other guys at the same time - a trace on her phone records revealed this. She had an existing restraining order against her and a court case coming up next month for the same thing.
I had a lawyer friend call her and threaten her with another restraining order. I still see her in church but she's so **** scared of even looking at me because my friend told her that he'll slap her with a restraining order if she even as much as looked at me.
Just how dirty do you like em?