Closet bisexual

[medicnick83]

Aiiiiiiiiii Ockie! Nee man!

 

[Ockie]

hahaha, he thinks you're a creep especially with the map you linked

mmmmm ja, maybe that was a bit creepy. Soooowweeeeee

 

[Nick333]

Did you get that out of a fortune cookie Nick? Be honest now!

Good advice...... and true

. It's something I was thinking just the other day while reading an article about something or other. People make too much about being open about who they are. I just don't think it's that important. The important thing is allowing your mind to go where it wants and enjoy thoughts that you enjoy.

I probably wont ever have a fit, young, submissive male slave who sleeps at the foot of the bed I share with a pre-cosmetic surgery Kate Beckinsale who exists only to fulfill me and Kates every whim but, if I did, whose business would it be anyway?

 

[Nick333]

hahaha, he thinks you're a creep especially with the map you linked

Dude does have his name as his nick as well as his town in his profile. Just saying.

 

[Compton_effect]

Being bisexual just means that threesomes are even more awesome than usual!
People read too much into sexual orientation. It doesn't change the person itself.

Myself - I'm happily married and find women to be the most incredible beings in the universe. I have yet to meet one I don't find attractive I some way.

But I will also admit - Anderson Cooper is hot.

 

[Skywalker786]

I would seriously not suggest marriage just yet.

Way to complicated

 

[Aghori]

How young are we talking about here?

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[padjakkels]

Thanks for all the replies!!

HitmanV: Well, I made a big change in my life when I was 25, moved from Klerksdorp to Colesberg...city to platteland. But Im here now to stay and won't move away again, because in my kind of business it is all about relationships with clients that you build over time. I am extremely happy here and see myself for the next 20 years still here. So moving away is not an option.

Ockie: I hear what you say about getting married, etc. I also think it is difficult to get a wife that will understand, and it won't ne fair against her. It should only be you 2 in the relationship. And yes, its a bit complicating being bi. Was in a relationship with this girl, and after a few months if a guy walks by, me feelings will change. I actually got bored with the relationship with the girl and it didn't felt fair against her, so I broke up. But the thing is it will never change...

 

[Ocali]

well congratulations.. OP..

and good luck.

 

[TofuMofu]

Thanks for all the replies!!

HitmanV: Well, I made a big change in my life when I was 25, moved from Klerksdorp to Colesberg...city to platteland. But Im here now to stay and won't move away again, because in my kind of business it is all about relationships with clients that you build over time. I am extremely happy here and see myself for the next 20 years still here. So moving away is not an option.

Ockie: I hear what you say about getting married, etc. I also think it is difficult to get a wife that will understand, and it won't ne fair against her. It should only be you 2 in the relationship. And yes, its a bit complicating being bi. Was in a relationship with this girl, and after a few months if a guy walks by, me feelings will change. I actually got bored with the relationship with the girl and it didn't felt fair against her, so I broke up. But the thing is it will never change...

You just haven't met the right person. Be it a guy or a girl. Once you meet the right person everything changes. You won't get bored just being with them. You'd think about them all the time, wondering what they're doing and when you'll see him/her again.

Just give it time. You'll know when you've met the right person

 

[Ockie]

Ockie: I hear what you say about getting married, etc. I also think it is difficult to get a wife that will understand, and it won't ne fair against her. It should only be you 2 in the relationship. And yes, its a bit complicating being bi. Was in a relationship with this girl, and after a few months if a guy walks by, me feelings will change. I actually got bored with the relationship with the girl and it didn't felt fair against her, so I broke up. But the thing is it will never change...

And that is why you need to be honest about it. For me personally, if I ever get married, I would want it to be monogamous. But, not all marriages are the same. People make their own rules in marriages so that it works better for them and suits their needs. And just because I want a monogomous marriage now, does not mean I will feel the same if my husband were to talk to me honestly about his needs and that I am not meeting all of them. Hell, what if I land up with a bi husband and he wants to sleep with a girl every now and then. I think I would be devastated .... at first .... but maybe, if I love him as much as would hope I do, then maybe I will allow for it as long as he is open and honest and safe. But this of course is all hypothetical. Who knows how I or anyone for that matter would react in a actual situation like that.

But trust me, keeping it inside and getting married and denying yourself this is going to lead to either you cheating, her finding out, EVERYONE IS UNHAPPY or you dont cheat but lead a unfulfilled life and going through the rest of your life unhappy.

 

[Musicmp3]

Have a threesome and decided who you like best - male or female?

 

[Ockie]

You just haven't met the right person. Be it a guy or a girl. Once you meet the right person everything changes. You won't get bored just being with them. You'd think about them all the time, wondering what they're doing and when you'll see him/her again.

Just give it time. You'll know when you've met the right person

But what if he does meet that person and its a guy, and then a few years later he sees a hot piece of pootytang walking past and wants it ..... or if he meets the woman of his dreams and a few years later he sees a hot piece of man ass walking by and wants it? If you are bi, are you ever fully fulfilled with a single sex partner?

 

[padjakkels]

STS, well, I'm attracked to males, would anytime start a relationship with one. About the sexual side, Im not sure that I would bend over for it...lol

My sexual attraction was also messed up early in my life...

 

[padjakkels]

Thanks Method, glad you met someone!

I'm going to PM you for support!

 

[Electric]

Thanks Method, glad you met someone!

I'm going to PM you for support!

For a date you mean

 

[Skywalker786]

STS, well, I'm attracked to males, would anytime start a relationship with one. About the sexual side, Im not sure that I would bend over for it...lol

My sexual attraction was also messed up early in my life...

You don't necessarily have to "bend"

Would you see yourself as top or bottom?

 

[padjakkels]

Satanboy, what kind of relationship is that? I would never want to be in such a relationship...

 

[padjakkels]

Having to lie to others about who you are sucks but is sometimes necessary. Lying to yourself is never necessary and always a bad idea.

Some random wisdom for all. Use it don't use it.

Thanks Nick333 - very true!

 

[padjakkels]

Where has OP gone? Did we scare him away? Maybe I should not have said I was from Vic Wes. Maybe too close for comfort for him?

haha at work, and can't chat whole time...but Im not scared away oom Ockie!