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swessels said:
STS, well, I'm attracked to males, would anytime start a relationship with one. About the sexual side, Im not sure that I would bend over for it...lol :p

My sexual attraction was also messed up early in my life...
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haha, you gotta give and take ;)

Ockie said:
But what if he does meet that person and its a guy, and then a few years later he sees a hot piece of pootytang walking past and wants it ..... or if he meets the woman of his dreams and a few years later he sees a hot piece of man ass walking by and wants it? If you are bi, are you ever fully fulfilled with a single sex partner?
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I'm not sure how it works. I'm only attracted to guys :p

I know a bisexual girl who's happily married to a guy and she wants to keep the relationship monogamous.

In the end, you can look, but don't touch :p I honestly don't know how it would work if you can't get off from the same partner anymore and need something from the opposite or same sex.

I still believe if you find the right person it won't be a problem. Go for a guy though...it's more fun :p
 
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Method said:
You just haven't met the right person. Be it a guy or a girl. Once you meet the right person everything changes. You won't get bored just being with them. You'd think about them all the time, wondering what they're doing and when you'll see him/her again.

Just give it time. You'll know when you've met the right person :)
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The he or she must come!! lol
 
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Skywalker786 said:
You don't necessarily have to "bend"

Would you see yourself as top or bottom?
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Some gay guys aint into anal at all. Top or bottom.

And even if you are top only, that aint set in stone either. I never used to like bottoming....but that changed now.
 
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Method said:
haha, you gotta give and take ;)
In the end, you can look, but don't touch :p I honestly don't know how it would work if you can't get off from the same partner anymore and need something from the opposite or same sex.

I still believe if you find the right person it won't be a problem. Go for a guy though...it's more fun :p
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Lol. thanks. I just don't want to get divorced someday...

Knew someone who was married for 20+ years. Then the guy told everyone he is gay, divorced his wife. Children were baffled as they didn't suspect anything...can't say if the wife knew about it... But our 'small' town was shocked about it... small town syndrome...
 
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swessels said:
Lol. thanks. I just don't want to get divorced someday...

Knew someone who was married for 20+ years. Then the guy told everyone he is gay, divorced his wife. Children were baffled as they didn't suspect anything...can't say if the wife knew about it... But our 'small' town was shocked about it... small town syndrome...
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I'm from a small town as well, but I live in Pretoria now so it's soooo much better.

Small town people are bored with themselves so they like to judge other people.
 
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Ockie said:
Some gay guys aint into anal at all. Top or bottom.

And even if you are top only, that aint set in stone either. I never used to like bottoming....but that changed now.
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Always had you pegged as a bottom.
 
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In Klerksdorp when I was in school, our local dominee also came out of the closet. That was in 1994...you can't believe how the congregation reacted... everyone wanted to know did he touch any boys, etc... people somehow connect gay with pedophiles...don't know why. The dominee moved away and was banned from preaching for a time also...was NG Kerk.

The problem is I'm also working with kids here, and would go though the same thing... so this is the main reason I'm keeping it quiet...
 
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swessels said:
How do you cope with this? On the scale of 1 (straight), 5 (bi) and 9(gay), I put myself at 4.
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Guess I'd peg myself at a 3.75 :D I love women - even got myself one permanently :D but I can appreciate a good looking guy at the same time. Not entirely sure I'd ever do anything about it though. Strangely though I honestly can't see myself ever been solely gay but bi could work :D

Regardless, good luck OP.
 
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