Closet bisexual

[BinaryJack]

No no, I'm still here

Really? Prove it!
Yours gets mine.

 

[Nick333]

how is bisexuality defined ?
or more accurately, at what point would one declare themselves bisexual ?

i have always been curious about this

It's a useful bit of BS in my opinion. I'm sure there are people that sit plum in the middle of the so called spectrum but really bisexual is just a label so that people like Ockie can feel like they understand something.

Personally I don't know if I rate myself as a two or three on the scale. I think exploring that side of myself has more to do with getting to know myself after growing up Catholic in the repressed old SA than anything else. Some days I'm gayer than other days but then some days I prefer older chicks and other days I'm very into fresh young things.

I'm really quite happy not identifying as anything and just doing what I want when I want.

 

[TofuMofu]

That and bi/curious/straight guys bring out y'alls predatory side.

Hmm, I can honestly say not for me. I haven't been on the gay "scene" long enough. Only accepted my sexuality earlier this year so gay guys is still my forte.

Not the fem ones though

 

[TofuMofu]

Really? Prove it!
Yours gets mine.

Lol! No thanks

Need to keep something anonymous

 

[Nick333]

Actually, Grant, you're probably asking the wrong person. I have an almost pathological resentment towards labels.

 

[ShaunSA]

When you're doing the low down and dirty no-one gives a **** about labels

 

[BinaryJack]

Lol! No thanks

Need to keep something anonymous

You're in PTA, I sincerely doubt we would ever meet unless I am Jhb and go frequent the regular clubs there.
I agree with the fem thing though.

 

[TofuMofu]

You're in PTA, I sincerely doubt we would ever meet unless I am Jhb and go frequent the regular clubs there.
I agree with the fem thing though.

I don't do clubs anyway haha

 

[mister]

I'm really quite happy not identifying as anything and just doing what I want when I want.

Me too. I don't see the point of wearing a label... I'd much rather have the option to change my mind if something appealing catches my fancy

But saying that... I seem to be sticking to my side of the fence exclusively lol...

 

[BinaryJack]

I don't do clubs anyway haha

Aren't you supposed to be cultivating kindness?
Trust me I go to clubs and i never pick up or get picked up.
I was told that I send out a "dont **** with me" vibe. :wtf:

 

[BinaryJack]

Me too. I don't see the point of wearing a label... I'd much rather have the option to change my mind if something appealing catches my fancy

But saying that... I seem to be sticking to my side of the fence exclusively lol...

You seem familiar.

 

[TofuMofu]

Aren't you supposed to be cultivating kindness?
Trust me I go to clubs and i never pick up or get picked up.
I was told that I send out a "dont **** with me" vibe. :wtf:

But I am kind I don't eat animals

I just don't like the whole gay scene thing. It's all a bit too much for me haha.

 

[BinaryJack]

But I am kind I don't eat animals

I just don't like the whole gay scene thing. It's all a bit too much for me haha.

Nor do I.
Most gay people bore me.
Too concerned about themselves to be able to hold a conversation about current affairs, discuss the philosophical nuances of life much less understand the word nuance.

 

[TofuMofu]

Nor do I.
Most gay people bore me.
Too concerned about themselves to be able to hold a conversation about current affairs, discuss the philosophical nuances of life much less understand the word nuance.

I don't know that many gay guys so can't say I've met any of those

Oh, I've been out once with a group of gay guys and I felt so out of place. The whole gossiping people's clothes and stuff just isn't for me.

 

[Ockie]

Actually, Grant, you're probably asking the wrong person. I have an almost pathological resentment towards labels.

god dammit! Stop pulling your label off!

/slaps 98.8% bi label back onto Nicks forehead!

 

[Replay]

Nor do I.
Most gay people I've met ,bored me.

Ftfy

Because they are gay or because of their personalities/character?

 

[Grant]

I don't know that many gay guys so can't say I've met any of those

Oh, I've been out once with a group off queens and I felt so out of place. The whole gossiping people's clothes and stuff just isn't for me.

fixed

 

[ShaunSA]

Queens don't wear clothes. They wear "outfits" :wtf:

 

[TofuMofu]

fixed

Yep. That's more accurate.

I try and stay away from the queens.

Queens don't wear clothes. They wear "outfits" :wtf:

hahaha

 

[Grant]

Queens don't wear clothes. They wear "outfits" :wtf: