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Nick333
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It's a useful bit of BS in my opinion. I'm sure there are people that sit plum in the middle of the so called spectrum but really bisexual is just a label so that people like Ockie can feel like they understand something.
Personally I don't know if I rate myself as a two or three on the scale. I think exploring that side of myself has more to do with getting to know myself after growing up Catholic in the repressed old SA than anything else. Some days I'm gayer than other days but then some days I prefer older chicks and other days I'm very into fresh young things.
I'm really quite happy not identifying as anything and just doing what I want when I want.
TofuMofu
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Hmm, I can honestly say not for me. I haven't been on the gay "scene" long enough. Only accepted my sexuality earlier this year so gay guys is still my forte.
Not the fem ones though
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ShaunSA
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When you're doing the low down and dirty no-one gives a **** about labels 
BinaryJack
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You're in PTA, I sincerely doubt we would ever meet unless I am Jhb and go frequent the regular clubs there.
I agree with the fem thing though.
TofuMofu
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I don't do clubs anyway haha
Me too. I don't see the point of wearing a label... I'd much rather have the option to change my mind if something appealing catches my fancy
But saying that... I seem to be sticking to my side of the fence exclusively lol...
BinaryJack
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Aren't you supposed to be cultivating kindness?
Trust me I go to clubs and i never pick up or get picked up.
I was told that I send out a "dont **** with me" vibe. :wtf:
BinaryJack
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You seem familiar.Me too. I don't see the point of wearing a label... I'd much rather have the option to change my mind if something appealing catches my fancy
But saying that... I seem to be sticking to my side of the fence exclusively lol...
TofuMofu
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Aren't you supposed to be cultivating kindness?
Trust me I go to clubs and i never pick up or get picked up.
I was told that I send out a "dont **** with me" vibe. :wtf:
But I am kind
I don't eat animals I just don't like the whole gay scene thing. It's all a bit too much for me haha.
BinaryJack
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But I am kind
I just don't like the whole gay scene thing. It's all a bit too much for me haha.
Nor do I.
Most gay people bore me.
Too concerned about themselves to be able to hold a conversation about current affairs, discuss the philosophical nuances of life much less understand the word nuance.
TofuMofu
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Nor do I.
Most gay people bore me.
Too concerned about themselves to be able to hold a conversation about current affairs, discuss the philosophical nuances of life much less understand the word nuance.
I don't know that many gay guys so can't say I've met any of those
Oh, I've been out once with a group of gay guys and I felt so out of place. The whole gossiping people's clothes and stuff just isn't for me.
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Ockie
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god dammit! Stop pulling your label off!
/slaps 98.8% bi label back onto Nicks forehead!
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Grant
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I don't know that many gay guys so can't say I've met any of those
Oh, I've been out once with a group off queens and I felt so out of place. The whole gossiping people's clothes and stuff just isn't for me.
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ShaunSA
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Queens don't wear clothes. They wear "outfits" :wtf:
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