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Safferbeauty

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Why is it that people in general like to complicate things?? Like as in a guy girl friendship. Why do sometimes people complicate things like that. I guess it can be kinda hard though when the one person feels more for their friend and it isnt mutual, if you catch my drift lol :erm:
 
Safferbeauty said:
Why is it that people in general like to complicate things?? Like as in a guy girl friendship. Why do sometimes people complicate things like that. I guess it can be kinda hard though when the one person feels more for their friend and it isnt mutual, if you catch my drift lol :erm:
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So are you the friend or the one that feels more than you should?
 
I'm guessing you are the girl that has a male friend that adores her?

Its a *** situation for both parties, although much more *** for the guy. Most girls seem fine with it because they love the attention.
 
It was just something I am wondering about. I personally am one of those people that sometimes complicates things. I dont know if its because I am a scorpio or not lol
 
Safferbeauty said:
It was just something I am wondering about. I personally am one of those people that sometimes complicates things. I dont know if its because I am a scorpio or not lol
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Bwahaha Yes it's probably cos you a scorpio!
 
I get atached very quickly but takes ages to detach and heart gets broken a lot that why I dont really do relationships. Easier that way
 
Do you get attached to your boyfriends, or to friends who happen to be boys?

Most men dont really have a friend zone like girls do. That is, if become close friends with a girl, I would still date her. Nothing like "but you're like a sister to me"!
 
Ancalagon said:
Nothing like "but you're like a sister to me"!
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Unless she's fugly.

I think there is such thing as a friend zone with guys actually. I've made friends with girls that I wouldn't date. Either because I don't find them attractive or just don't see myself getting along with them in a relationship.
 
do guys get emaotionally attatched to a girl? I know some guys and emotions don't go together. Same with girls....
 
Ancalagon said:
Most men dont really have a friend zone like girls do. That is, if become close friends with a girl, I would still date her. Nothing like "but you're like a sister to me"!
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One of my best friends is a girl, we are very close. To me she is like a sister in a way. I don't think I could ever date her, its not like shes unattractive physically or emotionally. I just cannot picture myself dating her... ever.

Safferbeauty said:
do guys get emaotionally attatched to a girl? I know some guys and emotions don't go together. Same with girls....
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Could you elaborate on what you mean by emotionally attached?
 
I only wont date girls if I'm not compatible with them, for whatever reason. No matter how good friends I am with them, I would consider dating them if things were right and if I liked them that way.

Guys can get emotionally attached to girls, of course we can. Some guys tend to do exactly what you do, in that they become friends with a girl, fall in love with them, and never date them because they dont realize they landed in the friend zone ages ago. Just depends on the guy though.
 
I have found that out with an interesting discussion with a friend. He didn't want to offend me but I agreed with him totally.....
 
Why would that offend you? Women are more emotional, usually, and men are more logical, usually. Women can still be logical and men can still be emotional, but its not the norm.
 
No its not. I think he was frightened because I am a lady lol but I totally agree... :D Not many would, I dont think. I lot of women think men and women should be equal but they just can't be......
 
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