The Voice
Honorary Master
It was always simple in my school days: has the child been told NOT to do X, why he shouldn't, and what the consequences would be if he did? Note I say "he" on purpose - I never even heard of a girl getting jacked. And if he did the forbidden action was he given a final warning before corporal punishment was handed out after the next infringement?The key word is occasional.. but where is the occasional line crossed? .. when you have spoken 3 times and then take action? Has the kid been shown what the correct behavior is.
From my high school days ... Handwriting not neat - jacks ; drawings not neat - Jacks; hair not cut to the millimeter - jacks; nails too long - Jacks; shoes not shined - Jacks; handouts not stuck in book to teachers satisfaction - Jacks; Arriving to school after the bell (1 Second late due to bus/dad) - Jacks ; One coward in the class pranks - whole class get jacks
Where is the differentiation? When does Corporal punishment become child abuse. The whole corporal punishment legitimises the whole 'He/She deserved to be bliksemmed'
Don't get me wrong: some teachers/headmasters are high strung - 30+ kids in your class who really should all have been disciplined at home by their parents so that you can just get on with your job. There's now one or two regular offenders wasting your and the other kids' time - and they don't heed any of your warnings. So what do you do? You really just want to get on with your job, get through your lesson plans for the day, so you can start preparing for the next, but now you have to stop what you're doing AGAIN because Johnny is being an annoying little **** again. Talking to him clearly isn't helping anymore. So what do you do? Probably what mine used to when kids got out of hand: grab the metre-long wooden ruler on the chalkboard rail and ask you to step outside for a quiet word. You got your hiding, apologised, and sat down quietly and got on with it. At break your friends would ask if it hurt, etc, but surprise surprise: you didn't die, and weren't emotionally scarred for life! You probably didn't tell your parents either, lest you got on your moer at home, too.
But there are also those who just lose the plot - clearly in your case that's what happened. And I'm pretty sure it wasn't every teacher in your school, either. My first experience with one was in Sub A - her name was Ms. Jackson. She would randomly dispense justice with whatever she had in her hand. In my case, it was a thick book across the back of my head. My parents kicked off and went to the school and threatened to kick her head in (or something) if it ever happened again. They said I had a bum if I ever needed to be punished. It never happened again to anyone in my class.
Some children ARE disciplined at home, but have a naughty streak when away from home - some more than others. CP just kept them in line I guess. I had a bit of that. But I was also bored at school - and would get distracted sometimes. Today that's called ADD. But I wasn't given Ritalin - I was politely asked to step outside for a quiet word.