Crossroads, advice needed

*cough*

uhm, I dunno hey... I used to be heavy shy of asking girls out. It could also not be just any random girl. I wanted to at least befriend them 1st. Then you're stuck in the loop of being too scared to kill the friendship & you're back to square 1.

Now I've just stopped bothering all together. *meh*

Yea i don't suggest befriending if you want more from the outset. You will get lumped into the 'friends basket' and good luck getting out of there.

A little flirting at least lets us know that you are interested and no real harm can be done.
 
I will indeed, there shall be many laughs for those who know who I actually am.
 
DJK = requiem

Oh go crawl into ToxicBunny's skirt and ****. :p

As I said before, if this were me I'd have attempted to impregnate her sister and cousin already. I'm not the shy type to beat around the bush with indecision...
 
Ok Ok. My money is on boodles.....nah he's only interested in sheep.
Killadoob?...nah

Let's see....JK8. or..mercurial...that's definitely one of them.
 
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Let's see....JK8

Nah, the font's not gay enough for it to be JK8. And all these posts without a single mention of his GTi? I don't believe it.

Can't be killadoob - the grammar (as awful as it is) is far better than killa's permanently-pissed style.

I believe that it is rpm...:D
 
*cough*

uhm, I dunno hey... I used to be heavy shy of asking girls out. It could also not be just any random girl. I wanted to at least befriend them 1st. Then you're stuck in the loop of being too scared to kill the friendship & you're back to square 1.

Now I've just stopped bothering all together. *meh*

Male version of me.
/echoes *meh*
 
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I think that she is just a bit afraid of the change that has happened

There must be some truth in what she has said,

I think you should just be honest about how you feel.

But the key is to lay it down, and then to give her space to make a decision. Step back after telling her. Let her have a think and she will come back with an answer that is real and true. You waited this long, a few more days wont hurt

Good Luck!
 
She won't be able to see me today / much to my dismay....

really bummed
 
Seriously,

I'm no Dr. Ruth but this is how I see it.

No matter what the time of evening tonight (You should have done it sooner). Get in your car and drive to PTA and meet her. Without dragging it out, tell her about what she said at the place you where drinking. If she tries to interrupt you tell her to pls listen as you have something you want to get off your chest. Then proceed to tell her with 100% honesty how you feel about her and that you just felt you needed to tell her your honesty as soon as possible and that is why you're there.

Once done, and she stands there contemplating everything you said, just turn around and walk away. Nature should take it's course from there. Meaning 1 of 2 things:

1. She calls you back and tells you she feels the same or why she doesn't.
2. You keep walking get in your car and drive home.

Suck it up and get some balls man. This could be the best thing to ever happen to you and you're letting it slip through your hands very slowly. She might be meeting Mr. Right tonight which could have been you instead ;)

Good luck and pls don't break a leg :p
 
Ouch you don't really want to drag it out hey. I don't know if you should drive to see her now - that's something you have to decide really. You know her situation, if she really doesn't have time or if she's making excuses not to see you. You kinda have to step up to the plate sooner or later though - and sooner is a lot better than later in this situation.
 
Sucks dude. I think she chickened out cause she knows what is to come.

I agree, she knows what’s coming and she is scared just as much as you are. I suggest that you get in your car asap and just go tell her how you feel otherwise this will drag on for another week…………strike while the iron is still hot.
 
Her excuse for not seeing me is valid, sucks, but thats life, I will phone her 2morrow and make her arrange a time, which cannot be moved. :)

Thanks for the support guys
 
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