Crossroads, advice needed

Hi, Requiem

I did read your post but not even gonna read the others coz I think they are useless (sorry peeps but you will see the reason now..)

My friend in CPT gtalked me now asking if this was me... lol... But you know what... it could have been coz this was my life... Kinda...

Anyway, She knows what she said... She loves you and there's no question. You don't say things like that and not remember... When you are a bit drunk the truth usually comes out for some reason.. :-)

It's your life and no one can actually give you the right answer... And the right answer isn't always the one that's right for you.

My answer will be friendship is nice and all. I know (me and a gal was friends from 7/8.. We played pool and everything and and and... Long story short, I was a stupid d1ck and didn't do anything in school. She's engaged and I am engaged... Weird... but yea... And we both broke up with our loved once a while ago and we chatted about this. Point is she was madly in love with me and I with her. But she was scared and I was 2.)

Don't make the biggest mistake of your life just becoz you are scared your friendship will be gone. If she feels the same (and she does) then you can have a happy life and never look back!!

If you don't tell her then you will always always regret it... I know man...

And if she cares for you and you tell her how you feel.. She will still be your best friend because she knows you almost better then you know yourself...

My advice would be to take her to a movie and tell her you want to speak to her after the movie over a nice cup of coffee or something...

Don't be scared coz it's more scary when you are 60 and you look back at the biggest mistake you made...

Good luck man, I know it's not easy
 
DJK said:
*penny drop moment*

My dating woes are over as of today.

But lets face it - some people just aren't worth more than a quarter pounder...
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Don't have too many of these moments DJK. We are in a recession after all.

Quite right though. Some people are not even worth of a happy meal, but hey at least you get to keep the free toy.

Search for the hidden message in that little gem boys!
 
Voicy said:
*lol*

Heita, you're a different oke hey.

Serqet, I don't think you wimmenz fully understand just how intimidated we are by you. If you wanted a boy to tell you he likes you ... how would you want him to do it without playing games?
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I'd want him to just come out and tell me to be honest. There isn't really a right or wrong way to go about these things. Just do what feels natural to you and the rest will fall into play. We aren't as intimidating as you think. We have the same hang ups and insecurities you do.
 
I have to say, you guys are really f^&&(n stupid...

The guy is asking for help and all you can say is pound her....

It's his best friend... There's more then just sex and that's why this is so hard for the poor guy...

If you can't give him advice (He doesn't want to tell her coz he's scared of losing her for ever and by pounding her will not help... Get a whore if you are horny... Love is not just sex!!!) then rather don't type anything...
 
Serqet said:
I'd want him to just come out and tell me to be honest. There isn't really a right or wrong way to go about these things. Just do what feels natural to you and the rest will fall into play. We aren't as intimidating as you think. We have the same hang ups and insecurities you do.
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Women worry about the size of their tackle? Well I never!!!! :D
 
renvilo said:
I have to say, you guys are really f^&&(n stupid...

The guy is asking for help and all you can say is pound her....

It's his best friend... There's more then just sex and that's why this is so hard for the poor guy...

If you can't give him advice (He doesn't want to tell her coz he's scared of losing her for ever and by pounding her will not help... Get a whore if you are horny... Love is not just sex!!!) then rather don't type anything...
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*swoons* finally a men with some sense!!!
 
renvilo said:
I have to say, you guys are really f^&&(n stupid...

The guy is asking for help and all you can say is pound her....

It's his best friend... There's more then just sex and that's why this is so hard for the poor guy...

If you can't give him advice (He doesn't want to tell her coz he's scared of losing her for ever and by pounding her will not help... Get a whore if you are horny... Love is not just sex!!!) then rather don't type anything...
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If he knew any better, he wouldn't have asked any personal stuff on a public forum where he probably doesn't know anyone. I once did that and I won't do it again.

I'm sure he's got friends and other people he knows who can give him advice.
 
Serqet said:
Don't have too many of these moments DJK. We are in a recession after all.

Quite right though. Some people are not even worth of a happy meal, but hey at least you get to keep the free toy.

Search for the hidden message in that little gem boys!
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It's far too vague, but I'd take a crack that it has something to do with the toy? :D
 
Serqet said:
We have the same hang ups and insecurities you do.
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I'm yet to meet a woman worried that changing her swing will over-correct the fade and end up with a hook, therefore destroying her aspirations to regularly birdie par-4 dog-leg rights...
 
Asking personal advice from strangers on a public forum is like watching an episode of Jerry Springer. How can you not find it hilarious?
 
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I must truly say thank you for all the good advice. You guys have given me some valuable insight.
 
Serqet said:
crack and toy should never be in the same sentence. It feels so dirty!
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Telling us that it feels dirty while using the words crack and toy is even worse.

Wanna get some McDonalds some time? :D:D:D:D
 
Serqet said:
crack and toy should never be in the same sentence. It feels so dirty!
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*cough*

uhm, I dunno hey... I used to be heavy shy of asking girls out. It could also not be just any random girl. I wanted to at least befriend them 1st. Then you're stuck in the loop of being too scared to kill the friendship & you're back to square 1.

Now I've just stopped bothering all together. *meh*
 
DJK = requiem
Serqet = requiem's girl

Please stop playing with us!
 
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