Jumping onto the tail end of this.
My brother recently (at least from a very noticeable perspective) started showing signs of depression e.g. doesn't like social settings, doesn't want to get out of bed, doesn't return messages/calls etc.
He had/has a lot on his plate at the moment i.e. 2 small children, studies, demanding job etc.
He is currently seeing a therapist and is on Brintellix, seems to be working somewhat.
I do sometimes feel like he must just toughen the F up, but that is the un-sympathetic and frustrated side of me talking..
This got me thinking, how many people suffer micro-depression, myself included, cause there are days where I really have to dig deep to get through the day, do my job, be there for my wife and kids, just basically getting through a day (I also have a hectic job, 3 small kids and just try to overall be a good dad/husband/brother/son etc.)
I imagine we will never know, as it is not something you diagnose via pathology but rather by observation and evaluation. But seems sad that some might never get the help they need and must just struggle through life, un-aided..