Divorce question

blunomore said:
I never realised how it impacts a relationship. You have zero couples time left after the kid/s have taken their share.
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yeah, i spent too much time trying to be be a good dad too, like when we eventually did go out we wouldn't stay out for long becaused i'd fret if he was okay, and even if we go out as a family, being 2 he took up a lot of our time watching him and making sure he was happy.

he also wakes up a few times at night, so i often left my wife at parties and took my son home so i could sleep while he slept, all these things added up in the end :(
 
smalltownsky said:
put the movies on hold because of the people that were hijacking it the project, but also my wife said she didn't think it was safe and my 2 year old son missed me too much while i was out, so everything contributed in the end.

would have been nice though ;) think i'll stick to hookers and escorts for now on :p
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How you going to explain to your son you guys broke up over David Icke?

Seriously man there are worse reasons to get divorced.
 
DrYes said:
How you going to explain to your son you guys broke up over David Icke?

Seriously man there are worse reasons to get divorced.
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it wasn't David Icke, it was lots of things :p it's beliefs, it's attitudes towards sex, it's trust, it's decisions. it's just having a chat with the guy and her bringing ii tup yesterday that pssed me off, like "you remember that thing he said to you, about losing me?"

i knew the marriage was over a year ago but i kept on trying to fix it. i suggested a divorce so she could chase after the guy she wanted back then, and she said she didn't want to. and it's never just one thing in relationships, maybe it's a lot of little things like they don't react the way you want them to when you touch them or kiss them, or maybe you just want to be appreciated more or for them to realise you're giving your best, then they act like you don't put anything into the relationship.

there is no reason trying to convince someone who can't pick up such obvious hints, i think our entire marriage would just be like that and that trust can never be gotten back
 
celeste_love said:
It is stated in the Law, i every country i think that like that, if i'm not mistaken. that when you and your spouse got divorced, the Guy should still support the ex-wife, though she can support herself, and specially when they have a child. half or percentage of his income goes to the ex-wife and the child. That's the law.
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LOL
 
celeste_love said:
It is stated in the Law, i every country i think that like that, if i'm not mistaken. that when you and your spouse got divorced, the Guy should still support the ex-wife, though she can support herself, and specially when they have a child. half or percentage of his income goes to the ex-wife and the child. That's the law.
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I must've skipped lectures the day they covered this one.
 
celeste_love said:
It is stated in the Law, i every country i think that like that, if i'm not mistaken. that when you and your spouse got divorced, the Guy should still support the ex-wife, though she can support herself, and specially when they have a child. half or percentage of his income goes to the ex-wife and the child. That's the law.
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If the spouse has strayed from the marriage why should the Man pay for the ex-wife's mistakes ?
The law is the law , does not mean that it is RIGHT!
 
celeste_love said:
It is stated in the Law, i every country i think that like that, if i'm not mistaken. that when you and your spouse got divorced, the Guy should still support the ex-wife, though she can support herself, and specially when they have a child. half or percentage of his income goes to the ex-wife and the child. That's the law.
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Tell us, what does your thumb taste like?
 
celeste_love said:
It is stated in the Law, i every country i think that like that, if i'm not mistaken. that when you and your spouse got divorced, the Guy should still support the ex-wife, though she can support herself, and specially when they have a child. half or percentage of his income goes to the ex-wife and the child. That's the law.
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Looks like someones going to have to wait for the old fccker to die instead.
 
celeste_love said:
It is stated in the Law, i every country i think that like that, if i'm not mistaken. that when you and your spouse got divorced, the Guy should still support the ex-wife, though she can support herself, and specially when they have a child. half or percentage of his income goes to the ex-wife and the child. That's the law.
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wife won't be seeing a cent from me, all going towards my son
 
blunomore said:
Depending on a number of factors, your wife may be entitled to alimony from you. Be careful in making bold statements; you may end up having to eat your words.
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we'll see, but we're going for a simple divorce. it was her choice too, right now she is earning more than i am and i'm the one paying the bills, so i might have to be getting money from her
 
smalltownsky said:
we'll see, but we're going for a simple divorce. it was her choice too, right now she is earning more than i am and i'm the one paying the bills, so i might have to be getting money from her
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Good luck with that dude!
How old is your son? Is your wife also the mother?
 
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