Do you pay a deposit?

Quixotic said:
I do not know her.
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Quixotic said:
Will be viewing the fridge on Monday.
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Take some airtags with you tomorrow.

Tie it to the back of the fridge.

If the fridge starts moving before the end of the month, it's time to visit her again - but this time take your shotgun.

This will help her understand that you want double your money back.

Then you can afford an even better fridge!
 
Surely she can go for a week without a fridge? Uber eats if she's too lazy to walk/drive to the shops.
 
bwana said:
You would not have started this thread is you didn't already have reservations.

You seem desperate to lose your money despite the advice everyone seems to be giving you - walk away.

FWIW I just searched FB marketplace and there are hundreds of refrigerators in my area. Hundreds.
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Wtf are there so many fridgerators for sale?
 
Quixotic said:
It’s a Defy 323L for R3,500
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Run like hell! Defy is the biggest rubbish on this planet (I have one). Look for a used Bosch that will last you decades to come.

The only time you buy a Defy is if it comes with 3 year warranty my friend. That gives you 3 miserable years before selling on Facebook and ask for a deposit because noone else might buy it
 
A final word from ChatGPT3.5 :laugh:

In South Africa trust is a rare commodity when buying and selling. When someone asks for a deposit to secure the item and you cannot walk away what should you do?

ChatGPT
If you're in a situation where you're being asked for a deposit to secure an item, and you're concerned about trust issues, there are a few steps you can take:
  1. Verify the Seller: Check the credibility of the seller. Look for reviews, ratings, or testimonials from previous customers if possible.
  2. Ask for Documentation: Request any necessary documentation for the transaction, such as a receipt, invoice, or contract outlining the terms of the deposit and the purchase.
  3. Negotiate: Try to negotiate the terms of the deposit or the purchase to mitigate risks. For example, negotiate a smaller deposit or ask for a refundable deposit if the sale doesn't go through.
  4. Use Escrow Services: Consider using an escrow service where a third party holds the funds until both parties fulfill their obligations. This can provide a level of security for both the buyer and the seller.
  5. Consult Legal Advice: If you're still uncertain or feel uncomfortable, seek legal advice before proceeding with the transaction. A legal expert can help clarify your rights and responsibilities.
Ultimately, trust is important in any transaction, but it's also essential to take practical steps to protect yourself and ensure a successful outcome.
 
A concensus in general from Google Gemini…. :laugh:


In South Africa trust is a rare commodity when buying and selling. When someone asks for a deposit to secure the item and you cannot walk away what should you do?

Gemini GPT
You're right, trust is crucial when buying and selling online in South Africa, especially when deposits are involved. Here's what I recommend if someone asks for a deposit but you can't walk away:
Negotiate alternatives to a deposit:
  • Partial payment on pickup: Suggest paying a smaller deposit upon pickup and the remaining balance after inspecting the item and confirming its condition.
  • Escrow service: Look for platforms or trusted third parties offering escrow services, where the seller doesn't receive the funds until you confirm receiving the item as described.
  • Reputable guarantor: Involve a trusted mutual friend or family member as a guarantor who holds the deposit and releases it only upon both parties fulfilling their obligations.
If deposit is unavoidable, minimize risk:
  • Use secure payment methods: Avoid cash, money transfers, or gift cards. Opt for secure platforms with buyer protection or reputable payment processors like credit cards with chargeback options.
  • Clear and signed agreement: Before sending any money, obtain a written agreement clearly outlining the item's details, condition, terms of sale, and return policy. Both parties should sign and keep copies.
  • Limited deposit amount: Keep the deposit amount reasonable and proportionate to the item's value. Never pay the full price upfront.
  • Detailed receipts: Request and keep copies of all receipts and communication records.
Additional precautions:
  • Thorough research: Double-check the seller's profile, reviews (if available), and contact information for legitimacy.
  • Independent verification: If possible, get someone else to physically verify the item's condition before sending any money.
  • Stay vigilant: Be wary of pressure tactics, suspicious communication, or changes in terms. Trust your gut and don't hesitate to walk away if something feels wrong.
Reporting and further help:
  • Report scams: If you suspect a scam, report it to the platform you used, SAFPS, or the NCC.
  • Seek legal advice: In case of significant losses or disputes, consult a lawyer for legal guidance.
Remember, even with these precautions, online transactions carry inherent risks. When you can't physically inspect the item, prioritize safe payment methods, clear agreements, and minimize deposits to protect yourself as much as possible.
 
Quixotic said:
Additional precautions:

  • Stay vigilant: Be wary of pressure tactics, suspicious communication, or changes in terms. Trust your gut and don't hesitate to walk away if something feels wrong.
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How do you feel about this part?
 
If you really had to ask "AI" then....... NO
As many said before me - If you really had to post and ask here then........... NO
Move on

/unwatches thread as the popcorn is stale
 
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