Does anyone have any relationship problems?

Dolby

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My Friday is looking pretty clear, so I'm more than willing to give relationship advice to any poster that needs it. To help you and - of course - alleviate my boredom.

December seemed like a stormy time for relationships - what happened? :/

We had Linoman, Faxnx, gdiza, Outtaluck and many others with issues!

Right now, are you chasing after anyone? Cheating? Lying? Not sure where you stand?

Post it and we'll help :)
 

ld13

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Relationship problems? Heck, I need to get into a relationship first! :eek:
 

Hoof-Hearted

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/ request to mods to change thread topic to read

Does anyone not have any relationship problems?
 

Dolby

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are you a marriage or couples counselor ?

Nah - just a very bored person right now :/

But that said, I'm sure I could sort out issues :p They can't be that complex ...
 

Ænema

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I'm married, so I'll have to ask the wife if there are any problems....BRB....:p
 

zjvren

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Posting your problems in a forum just doesn't feel the same as lying on one of those comfortable couches and moaning :p
 

Ænema

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I;m bac, asked the wife "you got a problem? Mmm".....sorrytr can only type with one hand at the monment,I better hurry before thee swelling on my face dissables my vision ...defff problems..s..yip....deff problemss,:D Thankx
 

scotty777

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well... i broke up with my g/f and I'm single again... well sort of single.
 

scotty777

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Is this to do with the drunk kiss? Did you tell her? Sort of?

Tell all and keep us entertained ...

well no, she was ignoring me so I told her to piss off, now I'm with the girl that kissed me :D :cool:
 

koeks

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okay dolby... here goes...

i don't like being asked questions by my gf. E.g. Why did you call that person?
I don't want her to look at my phone then ask me questions based o that...

Am i wrong?
 

thriel

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okay dolby... here goes...

i don't like being asked questions by my gf. E.g. Why did you call that person?
I don't want her to look at my phone then ask me questions based o that...

Am i wrong?

you not wrong, but not right either, females are much more emotional than men, there is no right or wrong with them, there is always a Grey area that they see that we don't.

she has trust and insecurity issues, you either gave her reason not to trust you, or one of her old boyfriends in past relationship did and you paying the price for his mistakes. You need to speak to her about it before one day it boils over and you break up over the issue. Honesty is not always the best solution, but in this case it is.

If you don't want to confront her, One thing you can do is to try and show more affection, show her that she need not be insecure and that she is the only girl you are interested in. Often if you apply this correctly she will feel better about her self, gain more confidence and the stop checking your phone :) ( the trick here is to make a point of showing interest n her alone, make her feel special as often as possible, a candlelight dinner here, flowers there, little "i miss you" messages during the day or even leave them on the pillow, suggest a weekend away just for the 2 of you etc. try and be romantic and spontaneous in whatever way possible. it will do wonders for your relationship.

I guarantee it will solve the problem right there and who knows, after a few of those weekends away it will probably solve alot of other problems too.


( how is that for variety post ? :p )
 
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