Does anyone have any relationship problems?

Dolby

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koeks said:
okay dolby... here goes...

i don't like being asked questions by my gf. E.g. Why did you call that person?
I don't want her to look at my phone then ask me questions based o that...

Am i wrong?
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Partly wrong, yes.

There's a reason she looks at your phone and queries what she's seen. Maybe you have done something in your past? Maybe she doesn't trust you for what ever reason? Maybe she's even seen something or had an unsatisfactory answer from you in the past? Or the other reason is that she could be projecting her own insecurities on you. She - in fact - be cheating or have something to hide.
 
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I just dicovered that my BF is a girl; help, what do I do. Your advice please Dolby!!!!
 
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eek said:
There you go Dolby! :p

http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthread.php?t=152768
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She should leave if she wants to move forward in life :) Her issue is her head vs heart ... and more than likely the heart will wi :( Very seldom do people change - and it's unlikely (not impossible, though) for her boyfriend to change.

Jewelbox said:
I just dicovered that my BF is a girl; help, what do I do. Your advice please Dolby!!!!
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Tough one. Leave him? 'He'll' never give you kids with two sets of girl bits ...
 
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Dear Dr Dolby,

I don't have one of those relationships thingies. Can you advise me on how to get one so I can have fighting and arguments and problems too?
 
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"I'm married, so I'll have to ask the wife if there are any problems....BRB...."

LMAO!

Oh yeah, ditto to supersunbird, where do we order these.... re-lay-shin-ship..s?
 
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I walk into the lounge now to hug and kiss my gf (which I do alot btw) and she's on her laptop, she asks me if I shut her laptop down, to which I reply yes, because I did.

Anyways, it's booting up and I already start doing stuff on it and she gets all like... "NO!!!! Don't! When it's starting up, its a very sensitive time" and she blabbers on how I must leave it and let it start up or it'll crash and be all weird and stuff.

I walked outta the lounge laughing.

I think I'm dating a complete nut case!
 
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Now Now oober, just go to the square and you're bound to pick someone up... Not exactly prime choice, but somebody nonetheless...
 
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tco21 said:
Now Now oober, just go to the square and you're bound to pick someone up... Not exactly prime choice, but somebody nonetheless...
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I often wonder how the guys pick up the girls for one night stands there... I just can't phantom how they do it...
 
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Dolby just wants to make sure there are people out there with worse problems than him, makes him feel better ;)
 
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thriel said:
you not wrong, but not right either, females are much more emotional than men, there is no right or wrong with them, there is always a Grey area that they see that we don't.

she has trust and insecurity issues, you either gave her reason not to trust you, or one of her old boyfriends in past relationship did and you paying the price for his mistakes. You need to speak to her about it before one day it boils over and you break up over the issue. Honesty is not always the best solution, but in this case it is.

If you don't want to confront her, One thing you can do is to try and show more affection, show her that she need not be insecure and that she is the only girl you are interested in. Often if you apply this correctly she will feel better about her self, gain more confidence and the stop checking your phone :) ( the trick here is to make a point of showing interest n her alone, make her feel special as often as possible, a candlelight dinner here, flowers there, little "i miss you" messages during the day or even leave them on the pillow, suggest a weekend away just for the 2 of you etc. try and be romantic and spontaneous in whatever way possible. it will do wonders for your relationship.

I guarantee it will solve the problem right there and who knows, after a few of those weekends away it will probably solve alot of other problems too.


( how is that for variety post ? :p )
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maybe she is the one with the problem here. maybe her phone has a story to tell, so she think my phone is also like hers... :rolleyes::confused:
 
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Dolby said:
Er. If she fell for his as a guy, she's probably very, very manly ... :)
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No, No, please, before everyone believes what I wrote, I WAS ONLY JOKING guys! I am not in a relationship and I am very feminine!
 
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