I preferred the De Klerk washing powder, the one that opened up the path for democracy in this country, rather than the one with the swatstika type insignia with a horse as a company car, but then I am a selfish white person.
No.
I fully grant that there really were people who wanted to see the end of a really really scummy regime.
My point is that you can't ignore a legacy when it's right in front of you.
Tibby said :
And your parents voted to maintain a facist police state based on racism .... I guess their children which would be you are now merely reaping what they sowed eh ???.
He was speaking in general and he does speak the truth. It's undeniably true that white people allowed the National Party to remain in power.
Conversely, what skeptik said was correct too :
You generation were busy burning down the schools weren't they. Then they toyi-toyed in protest at the lack of facilities. I guess your children are reaping what their parents sowed eh?
I can understand that white people as a whole allowed the NP to stay in power without violent resistance. I can also understand that black people as a whole created an uneducated generation because of their resistance to the apartheid regime.
In a perfect world, the whites would have never tolerated something as evil as Apartheid, and black people would not have allowed their anger to blind them to the fact that in refusing an education they are only hurting themselves, and would not today have an expectation of getting something for nothing.
But the world is not perfect, and this is the mess we are dealing with. If you don't accept the mess for what it is, then you're never going to be able to clean up this mess.
For black people, I would say that involves realising that achievement and success only comes with hard work. For white people, I would say that they should be tolerant of the current situation because of the past, and as a whole help a new generation to become educated so that we don't collectively commit the sins of our parents.
I wish that black people would act in the spirit of Ubuntu. I wish that white afrikaners would pick up the mantle of being an independent and proud people instead of the eternal victimhood complex they seem to be forming (De la Rey , De la Rey, give us a leader please because we're lost

). Victimhood complexes make you behave as if you're threatened even when you're not, and ultimately it means you become blind to your victimisation of others.
For the english speakers, I dunno, maybe just a bit of tolerance.
Not that any of this means that we should suddenly swallow it when political leaders blame their own failures on apartheid. That would be trying to sweep reality under the rug again.