Evolution the reason for affairs:

Dolby said:
How do you see that?
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We've both been here a while. ;)

You went for her because you thought you wouldn't get attached to that type of chick. And you're better than her, so she'll reckon she's scoring. Just shag her and have some fun. :)

So then you fell for her. :o

Later you figure that she doesn't want you. WTF? How could she not - you're a catch, she'll never get better than you!!! That pisses you off. :mad:

And you still ain't over it. :o


That cover it?
 
Yea I know ... ;)

I'm not moping actually. When something triggers me that reminds me (drugs, cheating etc) I wanna explode ... but generally I'm cool and relaxed. First time been single in 8 years - so a lil adjustment needed.

PS You got your little synopsis wrong earlier, but I won't bite and correct :P
 
Dolby said:
Yea I know ... ;)

I'm not moping actually. When something triggers me that reminds me (drugs, cheating etc) I wanna explode ... but generally I'm cool and relaxed. First time been single in 8 years - so a lil adjustment needed.

PS You got your little synopsis wrong earlier, but I won't bite and correct :P
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I got the idea right, who needs details? ;)

Trust me on this, forget the bitch. Enjoy the single life as much as can, spoil yourself, go out and see things.
Go 4x4ing, yaughting, flying, skydiving whatever you've always dreamt of doing.
And soon enough some chick will spoil it for you and make you fall in love with her. ;)
 
Dr Eve's got a point. All women (not the slutty, wanna be as messed up as possible kind of girls) are in it for the long run. Thats why there is no use in wasting your time with someone who you have to "fix", because it just doesn't work out in the long run. People's habits always run full circle, not matter how hard you try and suppress it.

So, here is why woman like the idea of THE ONE. Its all about genetics. We have become so complicated as human beings that we forget about the animal instincts in us, they are still there in our unconcious. A guy with good genes(not Levy's!), good manners will proberly stay that way for the long run. Its not all about looks and money, nature will let you know if you fit or not.
 
Slootvreter said:
Oh god. Always the guy's fault, hey? :rolleyes: If a guy cheats, he's a skirt-chasing pig, 'and all guys are the same', but when a woman cheats, it's also the guy's fault? This is utter bull****. And the ability to make a woman climax is NOT what's keeping her faithful. ****. :mad:
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Actually yes, 9 times out of 10 it is the mans fault. Or should I say males fault? There are obviously bad chicks out there but you can spot them from a mile and would if you weren't thinking with your dick. Once you have a good one you need to make her feel special and that includes making her cum hard. In fact you could probably keep her faithful just by making her cum hard often. But also you could probably keep a woman faithful just by being an actual man. 3 0 years ago most men (sorry males ) weren't whiney little wuss bags. Coincidence?
 
You're very mislead if you think sex and making 'her feel special' will keep her faithful.

But rather than argue about it, lets see how your marriage works in future
 
Dolby said:
You're very mislead if you think sex and making 'her feel special' will keep her faithful.

But rather than argue about it, lets see how your marriage works in future
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Well no, actually. Mostly I think being a man will keep her faithful. Your problem seems to be that you're actually still a little boy. Calling women whores and sluts is about as immature as it gets and a lot psycho. Deal with your issues and stay the fcck away from women until you've dealt with your sick attitude is my advice and hope.
 
Dolby said:
Uh huh ...
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Uh huh... Learn to love yourself, you have no excuses.

Uh huh... Stop being a passive aggressive nice guy and expecting woman to love you for it.

Uh huh...
 
evolution? lol. man loves to blame his moral flaws on things that cannot answered or be properly proven otherwise :)
 
Nick - can you not see a few posts up I agreed to disagree and stop arguing? Why can't you do the same?

Treating women like delicate flowers and hoping for Hollywood type love in real life - to me - is pointless.

Lets leave it there
 
Dolby said:
Nick - can you not see a few posts up I agreed to disagree and stop arguing? Why can't you do the same?

Treating women like delicate flowers and hoping for Hollywood type love in real life - to me - is pointless.

Lets leave it there
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Where did I suggest treating woman like delicate flowers? And theres no agreeing to disagree buddy. You have serious anger towards woman. Thats a worrying thing.
 
... and you're hugely misguided and living in a fantasy world.

What's your goal with arguing with me anyway?
 
Dolby said:
... and you're hugely misguided and living in a fantasy world.

What's your goal with arguing with me anyway?
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Lol. Whatever dude. My goal of arguing with you? 1) I take exception to your aggressive and hateful attitude towards woman and 2) I was hoping you might realise that you are responsible for your relationships with others. But nm. Just be sure your victim mentality doesn't cause you to create a few more victims of your own.
 
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