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but what you need to realise is that it takes two tango, a women is only going to be "more promiscuos" with another bloke, women aren't the problem, both sexes are to blame for the problem you describe. men are chasing harder (bad) and women are putting out more easily (bad).
Why should we stop taking advantage of it? Perhaps they should stop offering themselves. I think THAT'S where the problem lies.How recently were you burned, Sloot?
But I see it happen too often. People are blind to it. They don't want to accept that the queen of their hearts could be someone else's bootycall. To them it's an impossibility. People must get their heads around that and accept that there is a chance bigger than 0 that your partner (guys and girls) might cheat on you.
And of course, some dumb fsckers blamed it on me, I mean, how could I do a married woman? Please. Who's married and who's single. Who's committing the biggest sin here? Oh and the natural response from women was 'shame, things must not be going well for her at home'. Again, blame it on the man.
Lol, I wasn't
To put it to you this way, I've had an affair with a married woman, and I'm happily single. That kind of thing opens your eyes.
****ing SHAME?! Can you believe that? And if a man ****s around, it's typical behavior that can be expected from any male.
I walked away from this thing when it ended a happy man, with not a worry in the world or anyone that I need to explain myself to.
any man worth his salt would have seen the ring and walked awayIf a hottie had to spread her legs for you, would you say no? What if she's not wearing a ring or doesn't give you any obvious clues that she's married or in a relationship?and you think you're blameless in this whole thing
but now we are back to Nick333 comments, man up and stop taking advantage of it
and you think you're blameless in this whole thing
And I didn't say I'm blameless, I just couldn't give a rat's ass if she's married or not. This is now what I'm talking about, all the blame right back to the man, while the woman, who's in a relationship, is offering herself! It's stupid. Guy takes willing married woman home, he's a pig, and poor her, shame, she must just be going through a rough patch at home. Pffft. That's all bull****. What's with these guys who think women are holier than thou and should be put on a pedestal and be worshipped?!
anyhoo if she is wearing a ring or its plainly obvious then no chance thank you very much, once she's married its a no go zone no matter what, in fact, unless you're hooking up for a one nighter then you're going to be able to tell if there is a SO in her life. You have got to be pretty dumb to not figure out if there is someone else in a day or so.Still hasn't answered the questionquick edit there
basically when it comes to sex its fairly simple, what ever you do, would you be willing to share that story with your wife? I know I would never be able to tell my wife "Love, you know before I met you, I had an affair with a married woman".
looking back its easy for me to sit here and point fingers, i have a fiancé and get all the milk I want, but acting like brat calling women whores/sluts and not accepting that it takes two to tango in a relationship ain't going to get you any where.
If you don't know and she doesn't say, would you or wouldn't you? Is the onus on you to put each woman you meet through a lie detector while you interrogate her before deciding if you can have sex with each other?Still hasn't answered the question
did avoid it a bit, i would never hook up for a one night stand and by implying my rule of being able to figure it out if she does have someone else after a couple of days, i would not end up in that situation. If you suspect for even one minute that there may be someone else then trust your gut and avoid it (and im speaking about marriage here) 
