Ex bf becoming a problem

Quest10n

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Good afternoon everyone.

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Should i text him and tell him to back off? What should i say? I can easily strip "my moer" and i'm afraid i'll say some stuff that might come back to bite me in the ass in the future.

Why you wanna strip your 'moer', just go 'moer' him. You will feel better afterwards, don't forget to have some 'moer koffie' before you 'moer' him. :D
 

TelkomUseless

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btw
Is her name Lizelle?

we got the ex-bf!!!!!

:p

Ignore the messages or let your gf tell him to fck off. She is not intrested. Don't go threathing / beating up. Land you in jail (not worth it)... and you'll look like a smuck.

Get the coppers involved if he doesn't stop.
 

Cool E

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we got the ex-bf!!!!!

:p

Ignore the messages or let your gf tell him to fck off. She is not intrested. Don't go threathing / beating up. Land you in jail (not worth it)... and you'll look like a smuck.

Get the coppers involved if he doesn't stop.

Dont think so. They lady is leaving the door open. She cant just cut him off completely. Remember they were sharing honey spot for 6 years
 

Mike Hoxbig

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Why aren't you questioning her for entertaining it? If she really has moved on, then she would have blocked him out of her life - Facebook, his number, everything.
 

AfricanTech

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If you love something set it free, if it comes back to you, it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was.


Alternatively, get a very big, mean dog and pay the bugger a little private visit
 

Celine

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ignore it. if he was worth anything she would have gone back to him by now and answered his messages. she's not interested in him. leave it at that he's not worth it. she's being honest with you so you can trust her. she must send him one message and that is to leave her alone, that's it.
 

Dolby

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If you love something, set it free, and if it comes back nobody wanted it.

Seriously though - if she shows you and doesn't reply, leave it. He'll get bored eventually. Or block him?
 

WaxLyrical

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Why does this guy still have the licence to send her sms.Surely by now she would have told him to fsk off and put a blocker on his number.

I get the feeling she still enjoys receiving the little notes of pleasure.Women love them.

Then she shows them to you to express her undying loyalty and devotion, as if you're so interested in seeing them.

If this guys keeps persisting he'll eventually get in her panties (women never forget the first time) and you'll be the sorry sod doing the washing up.

The fact that she says "leave him" is already cause for concern.

Man up and tell the guy to back the fsk off, and then keep an eye on this chick.Might be still reeling from the cheating and is now out for man blood - yours.
 

marine1

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Why does this guy still have the licence to send her sms.Surely by now she would have told him to fsk off and put a blocker on his number.

I get the feeling she still enjoys receiving the little notes of pleasure.Women love them.

Then she shows them to you to express her undying loyalty and devotion, as if you're so interested in seeing them.

If this guys keeps persisting he'll eventually get in her panties (women never forget the first time) and you'll be the sorry sod doing the washing up.

The fact that she says "leave him" is already cause for concern.

Man up and tell the guy to back the fsk off, and then keep an eye on this chick.Might be still reeling from the cheating and is now out for man blood - yours.

This
Women love attention
 

Mike Hoxbig

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Then she shows them to you to express her undying loyalty and devotion, as if you're so interested in seeing them.
Yep that's the problem. She's not showing them to him to show her loyalty, she's showing them to him to see his reaction. If she was loyal then she would have blocked the SOB long ago, and would therefore have no need to show him anything.
 

Dolby

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This
Women love attention

... yet they have little idea how it fscks up there and others lives in a relationship.

If only they knew what was appropriate and what wasn't ...
 

RiaX

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Quietly message him from her phone saying that she is pregnant ... he will go away lol
 
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