Ex bf becoming a problem

[Alton Turner Blackwood]

BTW, OP hasn't responded to any of the questions. Seems he made up his mind

 

[Velenoso]

Unacceptable. Find out where je lives. Go to his house with a baseball bat.

My SO's ex was a ****ing little whimp (a ginger!). So suffice to say I didn't see him as any threat when I met him once. I'm a pretty intimidating guy and I could see the anger in his little ginger eyes that I took her away. He hehe

 

[KleinBoontjie]

Let your gf change her cell number and make sure she don't post it on social sites. Make sure her social sites security is up to par, blocking nosy bf from snooping....

 

[Messugga]

Unacceptable. Find out where je lives. Go to his house with a baseball bat.

My SO's ex was a ****ing little whimp (a ginger!). So suffice to say I didn't see him as any threat when I met him once. I'm a pretty intimidating guy and I could see the anger in his little ginger eyes that I took her away. He hehe

You're a bad, bad man

 

[Cool E]

Let your gf change her cell number and make sure she don't post it on social sites. Make sure her social sites security is up to par, blocking nosy bf from snooping....

does not solve problem if she still loves the guy. she likes attention.

 

[Pavan]

You're a bad, bad man

Maybe he was big where it counts though...?

 

[STS]

OP:

You should be open to talk to her about it. Be glad that she shows you and you didn't find out from having to look at her phone while she was away.

I've never understood the irrational behaviour of wanting to hurt other guys if they talk to your girl, or if you go visit a female friend then a gf having a nervous breakdown.

I don't know about you but i don't want to be in a relationship where i'm held in a metaphorical tower and kept away from the rest of the world because my partner is insecure. i was in a relationship like that once and i lost all my female friends, i'm not going to do it again.

you must understand that they spent 6 years together. of course the guy is a little **** for trying his luck but it's not about him, it's about your girlfriend, and its her battle and you need to talk to her about it. going around her back could hurt your relationship, and you will open up her to trying to solve your battles for you one day too.

unfortunately for me my ex-wife DID want to bang other guys, but she was also the one who gave me crap about visiting or chatting to my female friends. you need to be able to communicate with her.

the guy is a emotional ****er, he cheated on his girlfriend and is now saying anythign to get a reaction out of her.

 

[dudewotevr]

How do you know that your girlfriend does not send him messages?
Your gf is still is love with the guy.

I agree, she's still in love with him.

 

[Kornhub]

I don't think she loves him I mean they dated for 6 years so they have a history(she probably hopes to stay friends one day). I kind of stay friends with my ex gfs but don't send them I miss you msgs

 

[crysis]

Its clear you dont like the fact he sms's your GF, so then just be the alpha male and bite him (figuratively of course ). If you leave it, you will just be putting it at the back of your mind where it builds up and irritates you. You don't have to a be a d1ck about it, give the oke a call and lay down the law, respectfully of course. If he still persists then turn it up a notch.

 

[Keegan]

Hi

I'm not sure if anybody suggested this,
But if she is on cellc you can block the number on their portal, http://www.cellc.co.za/mytools

If she has a blackberry, you can block it in the firewall settings, but I haven't tried that..

Cheers

 

[Cool E]

Hi

I'm not sure if anybody suggested this,
But if she is on cellc you can block the number on their portal, http://www.cellc.co.za/mytools

If she has a blackberry, you can block it in the firewall settings, but I haven't tried that..

Cheers

she does not want to block his lovely ex.

 

[Kornhub]

So any updates?

 

[guest2013-1]

burn down his house

 

[Cool E]

So any updates?

no updates

 

[gregmcc]

Maybe the OP got beaten to a pulp confronting the ex.

 

[NeonNinja]

Grow up.

 

[Slootvreter]

Then she shows them to you to express her undying loyalty and devotion, as if you're so interested in seeing them.

I would rather my girlfriend show them to me than me finding out about them She is just being open and honest, from what I can gather.

 

[WaxLyrical]

I would rather my girlfriend show them to me than me finding out about them She is just being open and honest, from what I can gather.

No dude.
Tell the guy to fsk off and then delete.By showing him the messages she wants to stir something, create conflict, drama and controversy.women live for this schit.
And why not just tell him, why must she show the evidence.

 

[AthenianOwl]

MMS that dude a picture of yourself and your girlfriend