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Do you and your partner ever fight because of facebook? I am finding that my girlfriend's profile is driving me mad. There is a LOT of flirting and sexual talk between her and random men on that site.

What started out as social networking seems to have taken a turn towards dating and finding partners. To top it off, she won't even let it say she's in a relationship. Anyone else have this problem?
 
Mayhem said:
Do you and your partner ever fight because of facebook? I am finding that my girlfriend's profile is driving me mad. There is a LOT of flirting and sexual talk between her and random men on that site.

What started out as social networking seems to have taken a turn towards dating and finding partners. To top it off, she won't even let it say she's in a relationship. Anyone else have this problem?
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Dump her... she obviously isnt that interested.
 
agh, this is simple to solve, just remove her from your friends list.
me and my wife are both on facebook. we're not listed as in a relationship or on each others friends list, coz she is entitled to some privacy and trust and so am I.

of course, we know each others password, but that is besides the point really, just have trust in each other. without trust there IS NO RELATIONSHIP.
 
Mayhem said:
Do you and your partner ever fight because of facebook? I am finding that my girlfriend's profile is driving me mad. There is a LOT of flirting and sexual talk between her and random men on that site.

What started out as social networking seems to have taken a turn towards dating and finding partners. To top it off, she won't even let it say she's in a relationship. Anyone else have this problem?
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Keeper said:
install the dump application...
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alf101 said:
Enjoy the last few shags while u look for a new gf.
When u find one - dump her.
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WTF???

Man clearly she is either ashamed of you or seeing if she can do better....

Alf is right, start looking for a new GF.
 
No ways. I would not be happy with applications and activity of that nature on her site. Not my girlfriend at least. Doesnt want to put in a relationship on her page? Thats a big sign right there!

Talk to her about it, say its not right, she doesnt get it or just pretends she doesn't get it, she might be using you.

Id still say pull out asap, the biggest warning light there is that she doesn't want to put there that she is in a relationship. You aren't suppose to be flirting or doing anything to encourage flirts from random people if you are happily in a relationship.
 
Have you tried talking to her about it? That is usually the best 1st step you can make. If she doesnt want to hear about your issues, then go fsck her sister...
 
DJK said:
Have you tried talking to her about it? That is usually the best 1st step you can make. If she doesnt want to hear about your issues, then go fsck her sister...
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Good advice right there.:D
 
Some people don't put up their relationship status at all so if they do break-up, the whole world doesn't know about it. If she's put her relationship status as single, then there's a problem.
 
Dominic Rooney said:
Some people don't put up their relationship status at all so if they do break-up, the whole world doesn't know about it. If she's put her relationship status as single, then there's a problem.
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True, does her relationship say "Single" or is it just simply not listed?
 
Dump her!!!

Trust me :D

This from personal experience ( I'm the "girl" I said im not in a relationship cuz I didnt like her)
 
No no no, youre all being stupid.

Create your own FB account but with a different yet reputable and believable name. Then immitate youre some professional overseas and you went to primary school with her etc,etc. Then chat and so on and she how far she takes it. If not then you know youre ok. If she bites hook, line and sinker you catch her redhanded and dump her with the very poison she uses.
 
Peon said:
No no no, youre all being stupid.

Create your own FB account but with a different yet reputable and believable name. Then immitate youre some professional overseas and you went to primary school with her etc,etc. Then chat and so on and she how far she takes it. If not then you know youre ok. If she bites hook, line and sinker you catch her redhanded and dump her with the very poison she uses.
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Um... So in other words, you want him to make up his mind before hand to dump her, and then con her into something... ? Why not save yourself the trouble in that case and just end it?

Personally, I'd let her know it bothers me, and based on her response, I'd either:
1) Understand and not let it get to me
2) End it

Again, it depends on HOW much it bothers you, and HOW random these flirting things with guys are (do they carry on for weeks, or are they once-offs and then nothing?), and how often it happens
 
Her relationship status is not shown, and her flirting is pretty much every day and about 60% is with the same people. I have told her this bothers me and her response is "you are being silly". So when I asked her to at least set her status as in a relationship, she then replied "they don't need to know that, it's none of their business". But, she gets rather personal with these so called strangers, I think she has let them well in to her personal life.

Perhaps it is better to cut my losses, but on the other hand it could very well just be harmless flirting.
 
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