Facebook fights?

Just ask her how'd she feel if you did the same thing....
If she replies negativly, dump her
 
Mayhem said:
Her relationship status is not shown, and her flirting is pretty much every day and about 60% is with the same people. I have told her this bothers me and her response is "you are being silly". So when I asked her to at least set her status as in a relationship, she then replied "they don't need to know that, it's none of their business". But, she gets rather personal with these so called strangers, I think she has let them well in to her personal life.

Perhaps it is better to cut my losses, but on the other hand it could very well just be harmless flirting.
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If you're in a relationship and flirting consistently with other people something's not right. It seems like she's looking for your replacement. :eek:
 
Don't dump her man. Do what some of the other guys said and use her for free sex until you find a replacement.

It's better to shag a cheater while waiting for a replacement than to shag your hand while waiting for a replacement :)
 
Aha ... FB claims another victim :/
 
werner said:
agh, this is simple to solve, just remove her from your friends list.
me and my wife are both on facebook. we're not listed as in a relationship or on each others friends list, coz she is entitled to some privacy and trust and so am I.
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That's very cool.
 
Smooth Criminal said:
Don't dump her man. Do what some of the other guys said and use her for free sex until you find a replacement.

It's better to shag a cheater while waiting for a replacement than to shag your hand while waiting for a replacement :)
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Um... If she's cheating, do you REALLY want that? No wonder HIV is so prevalent in this country :/
 
Peon said:
No no no, youre all being stupid.

Create your own FB account but with a different yet reputable and believable name. Then immitate youre some professional overseas and you went to primary school with her etc,etc. Then chat and so on and she how far she takes it. If not then you know youre ok. If she bites hook, line and sinker you catch her redhanded and dump her with the very poison she uses.
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Thats called intrapment :p

Mayhem said:
Her relationship status is not shown, and her flirting is pretty much every day and about 60% is with the same people. I have told her this bothers me and her response is "you are being silly". So when I asked her to at least set her status as in a relationship, she then replied "they don't need to know that, it's none of their business". But, she gets rather personal with these so called strangers, I think she has let them well in to her personal life.

Perhaps it is better to cut my losses, but on the other hand it could very well just be harmless flirting.
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Smooth Criminal said:
Don't dump her man. Do what some of the other guys said and use her for free sex until you find a replacement.

It's better to shag a cheater while waiting for a replacement than to shag your hand while waiting for a replacement :)
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ROFL :D

End it or don't but start looking for a new missus :)
 
mine and my ex's said nothing and we dated for nearly 2 years ? wtf does a facebk relationship status mean.. thats like saying you have to have a stamp on your forehead saying your attached when you go out ?

as long as its not single i don't see an issue, and flirting is fine... as long as there is no follow through..
 
But what are you talking about when you say "flirting". It is a broad and very subjective term, often abused most by the jealous soon to be ex's.

My ex used to do the whole naughty poke on FB with our friends - didnt bother me. She received digital handcuffs and chocolates and chatted to male friends etc. Didnt bother me either. But let one of those fsckers take it out of the digital realm and into the real world and they would be heading for a game of "Guess what calibre".

Dont get so worked up about what goes on on FB. If she was doing it in the "real world" then you have cause for concern IMO. Until then, you are a "soon to be over-jealous ex" to her...
 
Mayhem said:
Do you and your partner ever fight because of facebook? I am finding that my girlfriend's profile is driving me mad. There is a LOT of flirting and sexual talk between her and random men on that site.

What started out as social networking seems to have taken a turn towards dating and finding partners. To top it off, she won't even let it say she's in a relationship. Anyone else have this problem?
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My fiancé and I deregistered, nearly broke up because of that freaking site.
 
Mayhem said:
Do you and your partner ever fight because of facebook? I am finding that my girlfriend's profile is driving me mad. There is a LOT of flirting and sexual talk between her and random men on that site.

What started out as social networking seems to have taken a turn towards dating and finding partners. To top it off, she won't even let it say she's in a relationship. Anyone else have this problem?
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I can understand why Facebook would cause a lot of relationship issues. Relationships are built on trust and it would be very difficult to build a relationship with someone who is nothing but untrustworthy. :(

I think seeing one's partner flirt with countless strangers whilst beeing seen as single is a bit hurtful. There is no respect in that relationship. You can either talk to her and tell her what you think, or give her the boot. Up to you really... ;)
 
All I can say is: trust issues. A lot of you people sound like you're going to have a lot of s**t in your future.
 
I agree with the above, if she's not willing to label herself "In a Relationship" she's obviously waiting for something better to come along and keeping you as Snoopy the Poodle so she won't be alone.

Trust is a big thing in a relationship and it's required. Jealousy is not however.

I've had a similar problem just the other way around.

Why I never changed my status to "In a Relationship", simple I didn't want to limit myself to only 1 girl.

You get the idea......
 
Facebook is the devil. I hate it. Haven't logged in for months. Girls love facebook cause they can piss off their bf's. You can't beat a girl on the net. She will always have a virgin sausage fest following her every move. Its an ego boost. Personally I hate that part of the internet and I will not partake in it, not only because its a waste of my time, or because I can't win. I am smart enuf to realize people are only on there to boost their own ego's. Its a give and take, and therefore its not a real boost, its all false. And thats how I came to see "online social networking" as pathetic.
 
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