Friend needs help with abortion..

[Waffl3s]

Quick question,
A really close female friend is possibly pregnant. She mentioned abortion as a possible "fix" and asked if I could lend her the money if she is infact pregnant.
Possibly baby daddy is a fling of sorts. Writing boards next month so kids aren't an option for her now. She also has cystic fibrosis so there is also a possibility that she might never have kids again.
Now,I am pro choice so not going to judge her decision. Issue is, if I lend her the cash and she soon regrets it, what then?
She is like a sister to me so not sure what the "right" thing to do is. Help and risk the friendship later or refuse and possibly end it now?

For those that know my primary nick, please don't mention if here. Thanks.

 

[sand_man]

Lend her the money!

If she can't afford an abortion now, how's she going to afford the next 24 months?

 

[MrR]

falcon punch .

 

[Carol35]

Lend her the money. And please insist she goes to a reputable doctor (Marie Stopes etc). Good luck to her!

 

[copacetic]

Lend her the money. And please insist she goes to a reputable doctor (Marie Stopes etc). Good luck to her!

This.

 

[D3nz]

Lend her the money. And please insist she goes to a reputable doctor (Marie Stopes etc). Good luck to her!

+1

 

[ponder]

Are they not free at certain places?

 

[The_Ogre]

Cout-hanger

 

[The_Ogre]

Are they not free at certain places?

All public hospitals

 

[copacetic]

falcon punch .

Cout-hanger

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Guys... Jesus...

 

[crackersa]

For those that know my primary nick, please don't mention if here. Thanks.

so we are allowed multiple nicks here?

 

[RazedInBlack]

Guys... Jesus...

What if . . .

. . . Jesus had been aborted?

 

[copacetic]

so we are allowed multiple nicks here?

Yep. Only illegal if you are banned on another nick.

What if . . .

. . . Jesus had been aborted?

The world would probably be a better place.

 

[Ninja'd]

so we are allowed multiple nicks here?

Privacy concerns. He's well known and friends and family might know his other nick he usually uses.

 

[ShaunSA]

Lend her the money. And please insist she goes to a reputable doctor (Marie Stopes etc). Good luck to her!

This suggestion gets my vote.

 

[Pho3nix]

Privacy concerns. He's well known and friends and family might know his other nick he usually uses.

This^. Unless you have been banned. Then no multiple nicks.

 

[Pho3nix]

Lend her the money. And please insist she goes to a reputable doctor (Marie Stopes etc). Good luck to her!

Most reasonable answer here. +1

Falcon punch LOL

 

[Nerfherder]

Quick question,
A really close female friend is possibly pregnant. She mentioned abortion as a possible "fix" and asked if I could lend her the money if she is infact pregnant.
Possibly baby daddy is a fling of sorts. Writing boards next month so kids aren't an option for her now. She also has cystic fibrosis so there is also a possibility that she might never have kids again.
Now,I am pro choice so not going to judge her decision. Issue is, if I lend her the cash and she soon regrets it, what then?
She is like a sister to me so not sure what the "right" thing to do is. Help and risk the friendship later or refuse and possibly end it now?

For those that know my primary nick, please don't mention if here. Thanks.

I'm also pro choice.

If it was one of my friends I'd offer to help her with the baby first then offer to help with a fix if she declines.

 

[longboy]

What Nerfherder said.

 

[Compton_effect]

I went with a good friend when she had to get a abortion. Boyfriend dumped her when he heard because he was scared of his parents. Long story.
She wanted to keep it, but it wasnt possible on her own. She got a massive lecture from me about using protection before I took her.
Saddest experience ever. Drove her home afterwards and gave her emotional support.

Help her out. No woman should go through that alone.