Friends with an ex?

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Update! I phoned to have the little talk and in the hour and a bit we've all been discussing this, he told her its been a long day and needs to see his friends ... to which she replied "as long as none of them are female" ... he told her to get lost. Decent blokes 1 - controlling folk 0 .. YAY! He said if she can try control him only weeks into their relationship, who knows what she will pull later on. Nice going.
 
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Kitten said:
Update! I phoned to have the little talk and in the hour and a bit we've all been discussing this, he told her its been a long day and needs to see his friends ... to which she replied "as long as none of them are female" ... he told her to get lost. Decent blokes 1 - controlling folk 0 .. YAY! He said if she can try control him only weeks into their relationship, who knows what she will pull later on. Nice going.
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Messing up a relationship that would have lasted all his days = Priceless
 
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Pitbull said:
No sorry, I'm not taking a swing at you. I just find it contradicting.

On the one hand I see a "real" man in the eyes of the females to be a ladies man and be there for his lady.

Not turn around and tell her to stick her suggestions and do what he likes. There is balance in there, you just need to know how to take advantage of it. You can still keep her happy and be with all your friends excluding your ex. I don't see that as an unreasonable request.
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Well I do. Each to their own though.
 
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Pitbull said:
Messing up a relationship that would have lasted all his days = Priceless
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I guess just as well I didn't get a chance to voice my opinion, otherwise I might be feeling rather rotten right now. He came to this conclusion all by himself.
 
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Kitten said:
Update! I phoned to have the little talk and in the hour and a bit we've all been discussing this, he told her its been a long day and needs to see his friends ... to which she replied "as long as none of them are female" ... he told her to get lost. Decent blokes 1 - controlling folk 0 .. YAY! He said if she can try control him only weeks into their relationship, who knows what she will pull later on. Nice going.
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So she's single and vulnerable at the moment? Maybe introduce her to someone you'd like not to have in your group of friends. There is always one right? Everyone wins!
 
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bwahahahahahahaha waaib not a bad idea! and koeks, we'll see ... I don't think he wants her back as neither of them believe they are right for each other. Besides, I believe her new bf will be there.
 
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ShaunSA said:
Wouldn't have been much of a relationship if she was controlling who he was friends with :eek:
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Not friends but Ex.

That is not an unreasonable request. I doubt she has a problem with the friends, she does however have a problem with the ex.
 
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Check the other posts Pit. It seems she has issues with all other girls. Not a bad option .. only about 3 billion of them on earth to compete with.
 
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Waaib said:
Check the other posts Pit. It seems she has issues with all other girls. Not a bad option .. only about 3 billion of them on earth to compete with.
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I guess it depends on how he feels about her then. I know my wife is my best friend and she has never asked me to choose between my friends and her. I'm glad because I will only have one choice and I won't even have to think about it ;)
 
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Pitbull said:
Not friends but Ex.

That is not an unreasonable request. I doubt she has a problem with the friends, she does however have a problem with the ex.
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It seems that him and the ex hang with the same group of friends so thats a pretty big problem right there. Who would have had to find new friends? I suppose if he'd stuck with the hose beast he might as well have just hung with her friends since she would have owned his nuts anyway.
 
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Nick333 said:
It seems that him and the ex hang with the same group of friends so thats a pretty big problem right there. Who would have had to find new friends? I suppose if he'd stuck with the hose beast he might as well have just hung with her friends since she would have owned his nuts anyway.
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Dono if I'm a real man or not but

Wife/GF/Sex slave > Friends ;)

Sorry but if I'm put in a situasion where I have to choose, my wife wins. I was also the "Friends" first guy. But that changes as you grow wiser :eek:.

Maybe it's because I'm married and have kids but I have long ago out grown the Friends first thing. Although my friends and I have grown up together and we still see each other even the one chick I slept with but she's now married to another friend. Wife has no issues with it. But if she didn't approve I would still have chosen her above them.

Ex's are not worth it, and this guy just proved it again, his ex is coming before his new GF. He's not over her yet and hopes to get in her pants again in the future :D
 
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