Getting over a person

[AlphaBravo]

Just accept the fact that you will only be friends and move on with your life silly. You live according to the decisions you make, so decide that seh is a friend and live that way.

 

[DerpiesFreud]

Just accept the fact that you will only be friends and move on with your life silly. You live according to the decisions you make, so decide that seh is a friend and live that way.

Yeah this is the least complex route although painful I shall persevere.
But The other part of me is screaming for interaction and social stuff

 

[TelkomUseless]

Yeah this is the least complex route although painful I shall persevere.
But The other part of me is screaming for interaction and social stuff

I had a girl I liked alot. She didn't feel the same. Cut the friendship and move on. The longer you stay and be friends the more you will get stuck (and hoping) (s)he'll change their mind.

That is what I did with the girl and was for the best. Worked out nicely ...

 

[DerpiesFreud]

I had a girl I liked alot. She didn't feel the same. Cut the friendship and move on. The longer you stay and be friends the more you will get stuck (and hoping) (s)he'll change their mind.

That is what I did with the girl and was for the best. Worked out nicely ...

Yeah I`l have to cut off before it becomes too much
But dammnit its like trying to cut your infected arm off as it begs you not to....

 

[be.plato]

Yeah I`l have to cut off before it becomes too much
But dammnit its like trying to cut your infected arm off as it begs you not to....

I was just thinking... perhaps you should tell her you like her. If she doesn't feel the same, she'll run from you!

It'll save you the trouble.

 

[DerpiesFreud]

I was just thinking... perhaps you should tell her you like her. If she doesn't feel the same, she'll run from you!

It'll save you the trouble.

That would be the easy way out.
If she feels the same then I`m even more stuffed (Since it can`t happen and it would hurt both of us opposed to just me)

I should cut her off but every fiber of my being is screaming at me not to.

 

[be.plato]

That would be the easy way out.
If she feels the same then I`m even more stuffed (Since it can`t happen and it would hurt both of us opposed to just me)

I should cut her off but every fiber of my being is screaming at me not to.

Is she or you married? Just wondering why it can't happen between you two?

 

[DerpiesFreud]

Is she or you married? Just wondering why it can't happen between you two?

:erm: marriage..... Why would I cheat on my spouse??? :erm:
No neither of us are married.
It wont work because I`m moving around next year (capetown/stellenbosch/jhb) etc
She also won`t be in the country for a fair amount of time... I think

 

[be.plato]

:erm: marriage..... Why would I cheat on my spouse??? :erm:
No neither of us are married.
It wont work because I`m moving around next year (capetown/stellenbosch/jhb) etc
She also won`t be in the country for a fair amount of time... I think

You not married, so you can't tell if you will cheat or not. :erm:

Ever heard of a long distance relationship?

 

[DerpiesFreud]

You not married, so you can't tell if you will cheat or not. :erm:

Ever heard of a long distance relationship?

I won`t cheat because its morally wrong.
Hmm not sure if me or her are up for one.
And I`ve always seen things go south very easily in long distance.
Perhaps...

 

[be.plato]

I won`t cheat because its morally wrong.
Hmm not sure if me or her are up for one.
And I`ve always seen things go south very easily in long distance.
Perhaps...

You can't go south in a long distance relationship. :erm:

 

[DerpiesFreud]

You can't go south in a long distance relationship. :erm:

There is a party type event in the near future....
I`m in trouble.
Give me strength MyBB

 

[Velenoso]

There is a party type event in the near future....
I`m in trouble.
Give me strength MyBB

This is the perfect opportunity for you to tell her you wanna get in her pants!

 

[DerpiesFreud]

This is the perfect opportunity for you to tell her you wanna get in her pants!

..... I don`t really care about her pants or getting into them.
:erm: what if she already has somebody else and is just being friendly to me? :erm:

 

[be.plato]

Yeah this is the least complex route although painful I shall persevere.
But The other part of me is screaming for interaction and social stuff

Needy much? :erm:

 

[DerpiesFreud]

Needy much? :erm:

Perhaps I phrased that wrong.
My brain craves stimulation I must think about things and scenarios and situations and analyze things otherwise I`l go crazy
Talking to some people satisfies this craving but shes unique and pushes my skills to their limits which is like getting my fix

 

[Mercury12]

I'm in a similar position., havent told her I have feelings for her. The girl is leaving the country today and I probably wont see her again. Hurts a lot but I guess I just have to forget about her.

 

[be.plato]

Perhaps I phrased that wrong.
My brain craves stimulation I must think about things and scenarios and situations and analyze things otherwise I`l go crazy
Talking to some people satisfies this craving but shes unique and pushes my skills to their limits which is like getting my fix

What skills?

 

[Azbubu]

..... I don`t really care about her pants or getting into them.
:erm: what if she already has somebody else and is just being friendly to me? :erm:

That's called friendship.

 

[DerpiesFreud]

What skills?

Mental skills
e.g. how much information can I extract from a sentence, its various possible meanings and the probability that its the correct meaning along with margin for error etc.

That's called friendship.

Would that be the Endless pit known as the friendzone? :erm: