Girlfriend advice

[bokdrol]

Well agreeing more with Arthur about the making each other happy bit. Don't agree about sex only within the confines of wedlock, but some people believe that, so don't want to be judgmental either.
"Is his/her happiness more important than your own?" is very important.

 

[Maverick Jester]

Really? Even the judgmental bit about sex out of wedlock?

I glossed over that, to be honest. The rest of the statement is still solid.

 

[Nick333]

As important as is your happiness more important to him/her, surely?

 

[Akasha]

I glossed over that, to be honest. The rest of the statement is still solid.

So did I. didn't notice until it was pointed out

 

[Ninja'd]

I glossed over that, to be honest. The rest of the statement is still solid.

So did I. didn't notice until it was pointed out

You seem like the types who would +1 even Techne

 

[Mike Hoxbig]

I glossed over that, to be honest. The rest of the statement is still solid.

It's an Arthur post, he never passes up an opportunity to mention that sex before marriage is bad mkay?

 

[Akasha]

You seem like the types who would +1 even Techne

Who is that?

 

[Nick333]

It's an Arthur post, he never passes up an opportunity to mention that sex before marriage is bad mkay?

Or to inject some staunch catholic morality of some sort.

 

[Lager]

what's marriage?

 

[Nick333]

what's marriage?

The joining of two things.

 

[Pitbull]

The joining of two things.

I thought that's called Sex

 

[Nick333]

I thought that's called Sex

You would.

 

[heartbroken]

It's an Arthur post, he never passes up an opportunity to mention that sex before marriage is bad mkay?

I imagine Arthur as some old 'dominee' posting from the pc computer at the local library.

 

[bokdrol]

As important as is your happiness more important to him/her, surely?

Yes of course. Both partners ask the same question. Win-win.

 

[Nick333]

Yes of course. Both partners ask the same question. Win-win.

Probably a bit of a fantasy. That's not how attraction works. Best case scenario one partner will decide to make the others happiness a priority.

 

[bokdrol]

Probably a bit of a fantasy. That's not how attraction works. Best case scenario one partner will decide to make the others happiness a priority.

Yes, an ideal. Not how life works, really. I know that. It's all grim darkness, death and apocalyptic horsemen, and so on.

 

[Zewp]

I imagine Arthur as some old 'dominee' posting from the pc computer at the local library.

Not quite. Arthur is a fairly intelligent fellow. He just chooses to apply his intelligence advocating for extreme conservatism.

 

[Lager]

I thought that's called Sex

I've heard this joke recently where someone explained the difference between magic and illusion
He went on by saying sex with your girlfriend is magic,
sex with your wife is an illusion

 

[heartbroken]

Probably a bit of a fantasy. That's not how attraction works. Best case scenario one partner will decide to make the others happiness a priority.

IE the settler and the reacher. Depends one where the OP sees himself on the ladder.

 

[Pitbull]

I've heard this joke recently where someone explained the difference between magic and illusion
He went on by saying sex with your girlfriend is magic,
sex with your wife is an illusion

I LOL'd HARD!!!