Thanks very much to everyone for the replies! I really appreciate the feedback and opinions.
A specific thank you to you adamr. I must admit that I am currently leaning strongly toward the Golf R. Your story about the depreciation (or lack thereof) was exactly the type of information that I was looking for. I also found the comment regarding the R being superior to the A45 intriguing. I’ve seen videos of those two being stacked against one another on Youtube, so there must be some truth in what you say!
The S3 is no doubt a mighty decent car, but having owned both and others in the segment, I trust your opinion on the R. I think that even if the S3 was marginally better to drive than the R, I would have to go R purely based on the depreciation factor. With that much money involved, one has to be practical too!
I called the dealer today to enquire about discount and availability. I spoke to a pretty helpful guy who has undertaken to get back to me tomorrow. Other than that, I guess the next step is to arrange a test-drive, just to be sure
Thanks again to all!